By topaz23 - 16/04/2015 16:34 - Canada - Surrey

Today, my husband told me he doesn't see the point in trying anymore, and that he no longer loves me. I was devastated. He stayed on the couch while I went to bed. Ten minutes later, he said, "Do you mind? I'm trying to sleep." and asked me to shut up. FML
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topaz23 16

I want to thank everyone for their comments. When I went to bed crying it was nearly 4am and he had to pick up our 2 kids from his moms house at 6am. We have our issues and it's just one if those humps we are trying to get over. I posted venting cause I was frustrated. He travels lots for work and hardly sees me and our kids I think a big part of it is depression. Not that that's an excuse. We talked more before he had to leave out of town again today for 2 weeks and we are gonna try and resolve our issues though I'm not sure how well that will work out. But I am trying to stay positive. As much as it hurts he's doing his best to be honest with me and talk it through. We were both just very tired and like I said he had to pick up our kids. We have been together nearly 6 years. And he's the only person I love and trust the only ones I love more are our kids. Now matter how hard this is hurting me right now I am trying to look at the positive and moved forward.

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haileyrows 26

That's horrible- I hope you find someone better who will treat you right and deserve you. Until then, just focus on moving on and making yourself happy. It will get better, I promise.

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_kyleG_ 34

As much as this sucks and hurts like hell right now, he's shown his true colors. (they read: MAJOR ASSHOLE) This is an opportunity to find someone who will actually love and respect you- good luck!

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blueie 24

Fingers crossed OP you know what's the best decision for you and your kids soon and everyone is okay at the end of it

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lehnish 2

Hi! I just want to tell you that I feel your pain. As we speak, the father of my daugther has left us for good. I have tried for some years now to keep it all together for us and the kids. But unfortunantley, he couldn`t be helped. I understand deep down that this is for the best, though it hurts like hell. The fact that your husband tells you to shut up when you are crying is WRONG, and it hurts to read it because I have had the same experience several times with my now ex-boyfriend. No matter what you are going trough, even though you were both tired, ask yourself this : If it was the other way around, would you say that to him when he cries? I think not. That is NOT love honey. YOU can`t make a marriage and love for to people. I myelf am firmly holding on to the belief right now that I need to let him go so I can welcome real love into my life. Not only is that the best for me, but our children are MUCH better off seeing us happy and being treated right and with respect. We are their role-models after all. And if we accept this kind of treatment, I promise you, so will your children when they grow up. No matter what you choose to do though, remember, you are not alone. And when everything seems to be falling apart, you will always have yourself. And the day you meet your maker, you will only have yourself. So love yourself, treat yourself with respect and don`t let anyone compromise your worth!

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