By badsinger - New Zealand
Today, my fiancée told me she was having a bad day while we were lying in bed. Just as she was about to fall asleep I thought it would be sweet if I sang her a song that her Mom sang to her when she was a child. Instead, I was told to shut the fuck up and that I sucked. FML
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  DougB  |  0

Play on when you're losing the game
Play on 'cause you're gonna make mistakes
It's always worth the sacrifice
Even when you think you're wrong
So play on

  xNataku  |  0

When someone's trying to sleep, it can really be annoying when someone makes noises. >.> Maybe it works for little kids, but not grown up people. I would totally hit someone if someone did that on my bad day. xD

  Monikabug  |  9

I totally disagree with all of these "you're unappreciated/she's an ungrateful bitch" comments. She was having a bad day, people. If I was having a bad day, I'd be highly irritated by the end of the night too, ready to go to sleep and start a new day as quickly as possible. How would you like to be so close to getting to sleep, only to be woken up by your fiancé singing a song that your mum used to sing to you - only butchering it?

I know it was a kind gesture from the OP, but really I don't think this should be about her being ungrateful, or unappreciative. I know EVERYONE here has had at least ONE bad day in their life.
You guys tend to look at things one-sided.  

  Monikabug  |  9

Pretty sure when you are engaged to someone, you are supposed to know when they need to be sang to, and when they need to be left alone.
She wasn't a douche for wanting to be left alone. ( •_•)

  Monikabug  |  9

I can see what you are saying, but I would think that he would have a general idea. I wouldn't start singing to someone if they were about to fall asleep anyways.
Even so, dear Pen, I still don't think that the OP's fiancé can really be considered ungrateful for having a bad day and therefore being moody, so I stand by what I said.

  newkellygirl  |  0

totally agreed. I know if I have a bad day and my husband knows it too. he just stays away from me and doesn't really say much. same goes for him too. people just don't understand that these days. and give women a bad name when it's just a bad day

  Jewelofagal  |  2

Bad days are one thing, using profanity against your fiance is another matter entirely. Even when tired or irritated, partners should not say such harsh, crude, and hurtful statements to each other. Should the OP marry this woman, she will be the kind of wife who routinely calls her husband profane names. It's just her personality. This kind of behavior helps to destroy relationships.

  MsTODoubleD  |  0

it's very hard for me to fall asleep, takes forever. so if my husband were to start singing to me as I was about to finally doze off I'd tell him to stfu too! regardless of whether my day was good or bad! lol, next time be more discerning op!

  abyssal_angel  |  6

I agree with 93. While it is perfectly fine for her to be moody/tired/whatever, what she said to him is completely unacceptable and a gross overreaction. She's a witch. End of story.

  beer_tears  |  0

Sounds mean I suppose, but if I were in a bad mood i'd probably tell you to shut the fuck up as well. Most people just want to be left alone if they're in a bad mood, otherwise they'll let you know, like "let's do something to get my mind off of things" otherwise, it's best to leave them alone. Or else you'll probably have a repeat of today.