By Anonymous - 29/06/2016 14:42 - United States - Pardeeville

Today, my dad might be dead. I'm basing this solely on the fact that he hasn't called recently to verbally abuse me as he often does. He constantly beat me as a child, yet now I'm kind of worried for the piece of shit. FML
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Kr1ket927 15
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It sucks having a good heart. We even worry about the assholes. FYL OP =/

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Welshite 39
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So pick up the phone and call if you are that worried about him... It may not change his behavior, but it might settle your fears.

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Kr1ket927 15
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It sucks having a good heart. We even worry about the assholes. FYL OP =/

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sk8erd 15
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sadly, thats very true...

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Fartful_Dodger 8
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I agree, but OP you need to decide if he's your dad or just the guy who happened to be in the room when you were conceived.

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AyeJay101 25
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Sorry for your rough childhood, but we all have some feeling towards our biological parents, even if we never know them.

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Welshite 39
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So pick up the phone and call if you are that worried about him... It may not change his behavior, but it might settle your fears.

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Nyattack 14
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Sounds simple, but most of the time it's more complicated than just that... The OP must be thinking of the what ifs : what if I call, he doesn't answer and I'm left wondering ? What if I'm mistaken and he resumes the abuse because I reached out to him ? Plus, with this kind of relationships, it can feel embarassing to still be worrying for toxic people ; so yeah, unfortunately not as easy as "Oh well I'll just call and check"

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Welshite 39
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#11: I grew up in an abusive home. It sucks, but there it is. My grandfather went crazy and tried to murder my family. I hate his memory for what he did, but I can't let that hate consume me. The OP is obviously hurting, and there are very few options to heal that hurt. Calling his dad is one of them.

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Lmoconley 4
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You are right. The person that posted the response before this. Either does not understand or does not have the ability to put themselves in someone else's shoes, and empathize. Nice of you to respond in this manner. The OP might have seen your response and appreciated your input.

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sloth115 18
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IcedSapphire 27
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That's not okay.

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Kidd_Ant 18
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Leave the comment section.

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bobmcmuffin 5
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Mangascribbler 19
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That as the case may be, it doesn't change the fact that OP, does, on some level, fear for the man. His being dead would most likely be both a relief and a renewed burden.

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hkhan24 23
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Maybe he's found a new target?

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MidnaLink 33
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Knowing that, I'm honestly surprised you pick up the phone when he calls.

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bobmcmuffin 5
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he deserves to die.....sorry that was a bit dark

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GoogieWithers 22
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Sounds like you are a good person despite how you were treated by your Dad. Sadly good people worry about others, phone him for your own peace of mind.

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