Today, my boyfriend broke up with me, claiming moving in was a bad idea and he is the type who needs his privacy. It was his idea to move in, he had to convince me. Now we are stuck, under lease together for the next 6 months. FML
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Thanksgiving
Questions about your love life, a burnt turkey and the cousin who knows everything: Thanksgiving, a contact sport.
Same thing different taste
Afterthought
Today, my boyfriend admitted that he never thought we had a future together. He just wanted to move in together so he could get "cheaper rent for a while." FML
Confinement must be great
Today, my boyfriend and I broke up because he won’t stop inappropriately talking to other girls on social media. We live together and have 6 months left on our apartment lease. FML
Independence day
Today, my boyfriend of four years broke up with me because he wanted some independence. He moved back into his parents' house. FML
Cost of living crisis
Today, my boyfriend of eleven months broke up with me, but adamantly insisted I didn't move out of our apartment, because he can't pay the rent alone. FML
Today, my boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me because he is moving. He's only moving 20 minutes away. FML
Today, I went to my boyfriend's apartment to break up with him since he's always busy, and I haven't seen or spoke to him in almost 2 months. I arrived to find out from his landlord that he'd moved out 3 weeks ago, leaving a note saying that we were over. FML
Dream house
Today, my wife wanted more space, so we moved to a new house. I signed a more expensive one-year lease and went through a huge move. Everything would’ve been fine if she hadn’t broken up with me one month later. Now I’m trying to renegotiate the lease and sleeping on the couch. FML
Today, my boyfriend of 8 years moved in with two other women. He's spent the past 2 years telling me he can't afford to move out of his parent's house. FML
Bad sign
Today, my 24 year-old boyfriend said that he wanted to move out of our apartment, but also stay in a relationship. He's moving back in with his parents, over two hours away. FML.
Time to move on
Today, my boyfriend of 4 years, whom I just signed a year lease, broke up with me, exactly a week after my best friend's funeral in my last year of college. I can't afford to live in our apartment alone. I'm going to have to drop out and move in with my sister states away. FML
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CallMeHush 1
Draw a line up the middle and take one side.
olivejuice001 0
If one of you wants to stay wherever you are living and the other agrees to move out, you can usually have the lease rewritten under the name of the one staying. Did that when I realized my now ex-fiance was a waste of time and energy. He moved out, I kept the place. (This works best when he's done something incredibly stupid that you can hold over his head to motivate him to get lost.)
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Ruprex 0
woooooooow... that sucks. invite over random people until he buys out your half, lol
ajayne 0
Oh man, the same thing happened to me! My ex and I were sharing a 4 bedroom house with 3 other people, and he convinced me that it would be better of we moved into our own apartment. I was reluctant but finally agreed, with the stipulation that we get a 2 bedroom apt (just in case). Unfortunately there were no good ones in our budget range, so we got a really nice one bedroom. 2.5 months later, he announced he was moving back with his parents. I couldn't afford the rent by myself. I got the last laugh though, because I asked his ex girlfriend to move in with me, and now we've been best friends for the past 6 years!
hehe_oops 2
that's probably because the majority of people who don't believe in moving in before matrige, also don't belive in divorce, even when it is the right thing to do also just because the 'stats' say that doesn't mean it's a good idea, I'm practically living with my boyfriend now, I see him everyday and talk to him all day when I'm not with him, I don't live with him though, but I might aswell be, this is the case for a lot of people.
judetheobvious 0
YDI for believing a complete retard
grayscale_red 0
YDI for allowing yourself to be convinced to do something you didn't want to do
Crittz 0
Kinda agree with #58 Same thing happened to me. Boyfriend wants out, as soon as things got slightly "difficult" (ie; not the constant booty he expected, small apartment, me getting sick). And yes, HE was the one who wanted to move in together in the first place. Serves me right for assuming the guy had more maturity and life experience. I can't believe how clueless he is about the ups and downs of REAL life. Douchebag.
dareturnofone 0
let the property manager use your deposit money so that you can break the lease
deadbunny17 0
What I want to know is how many people these days are getting married before living together? Is it reallllllllllly that common as to where there's a "statistic" that says marriages are better if people wait until marriage to move in together? I mean c'mon.
yeahtoastman 0
Give him some space for a while, then try to fix it. That might just be what he needs.
sourgirl101 29
#82 is right! Great way to view a different side.