I'm in the same situation, although the lease has finally expired. I survived it. So can you. Stay friends and take up a hobby that gets you out of the flat.

Yes, because it's much better to move in after you're married and have no idea how the person lives. Whether they're a slob or not. Whether they expect you to do everything for them. Sorry, but I feel it's a much better idea to live with someone and understand what you're getting into.

Bring a boy home. And be loud.

mine just did the same thing to me. he had to talk me into moving in with him. men.

YDi for being in a fake relationship. and thats what you get for being happy. and thats what you get for letting someone covince you to do something you didnt want to in the first place. ha-ha

if the lease is in his name, move out. if it's in yours, kick the bastard to the curb and find somebody to sub-let!

What your boyfriend really meant is that he did not realize that women were actually people and not just sex toys. He was probably confused the first time he saw you without makeup, or the first time you said no to sex. Then he must have been totally shocked the first time he heard you taking a shit. Just get him to take you off the lease and never talk to him again.

been there. 1 of u need to move out but still split the rent unless u can get out of the lease

Yikes! That's a horrible situation to be in. I probably wouldn't live with my boyfriend for that reason but I can see pros and cons. Pros being you get to learn more about the person cons being what happens if you break up. I hope things go well. If not, you could try suing him if you can find something. I don't know much about law though :/

gun n a shovel. that'll take care of it