By luvizwar - 18/09/2009 23:27 - Australia
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That is an awfully foolish thought. First, it's a Ps2... while it's nice, nothing too fancy. Secondly, in a good relationship, they would've talked about it. Unless she wanted to surprise him knowing full well, he might not know. Maybe he counts it from the first time they had sex as opposed to the first date. Big difference there. OP, hang in there.
Screw you guys I love my PS2. Also this could have happened before recently. Also, agreed, some guys are a little dense. And it's only been one year; easy to forget an anniversary when you've never had it before! Don't feel so bad, give him time. Besides, since it's only been one year, and it's a boyfriend/girlfriend anniversary as opposed to a wedding one, so you two may have a different opinion on what day is your anniversary.
you know what? this conversation pisses me off. Guys don't remember stuff like anniversarys because they aren't important. It doesn't make us stupid, almost all advancements in the history of the earth were made by guys, that is undeniable. You could say that that's because we live in a male dominated society, but that's not true any longer women have the same opportunities as men and they still don't accomplish nearly as much.
OP, just tell him that you're upset because his response came off as unappreciative. I understand that you think that the way he reacted may have seemed selfish but you just need to tell him instead of posting it on this site where people are selfish pricks who don't understand the meaning behind "giving." If you don't tell him, he's just going to think everything is fine. At the least, he did begin using it instead of discarding it and really hurting your feelings. It's not really an FML, it's just a misunderstanding.
guys do remember them. i actually think more like a guy and therefore the relationship between me and my bf is kinda reversed...he remembers the important dates and i never do XD. he understands though...give your bf a bit of a break just remind him. he'll remember the important stuff if you get married. and to everyone saying the ps3 is out now...um, the ps3 is f***kin expensive. i'd say the ps2 is a good gift...my bf got me a bass guitar that was $320 for absolutely no reason at all...merely because he had the money and we haven't been dating for anywhere close to a year...i got really mad at him but he refused to return the bass and i don't have the money to reimburse it. FYL and YDI, because you can't expect guys to remember everything.
First off, your "guys don't remember anniversaries" argument is bullshit. My boyfriend will remember "monthaversaries," while I have no clue and kind of don't care, even though I think it's cutet. I'm not one of those girls that's like OMG WE'VE BEEN DATING FOR 7 MONTHS HAPPY ANNIVERSARY BABY! Whatever. I just care about the year marks. Girls CARE about that kind of shit, and every guy should've figured that out by now. I think OP should have mentioned in the couple weeks before "oh, what do you think we should do for our one year anniversary?" But it's not totally her fault. Jesus Christ.
If you want your guy to care about things like boyfriend/girlfriend anniversaries, you need to remind him. It's lame enough that many girls (and some grown women) make a big deal about them. Month anniversarie are an excuse for the insecure to validate their relationship. It's a meaningless milestone celebrated by people in HS and middle school relationships trying to play "grown up". Seriously girls, enough already. Guys really don't care about those things. They pretend to so you'll give it up. And guys, if you buy her any jewelry before you buy her an engagement ring, she's got your balls on a string from then on. That doesn't mean be an unappreciative dick. It means don't give up your balls while you still have a lot of life left in 'em.
a ps2? really? fyl that your boyfriend is dumb. but at least now you can make his life hell and remind him about it in every fight. it's like a get out if jail free card. like this: bf: why didn't you pay the water bill?! you: oh, it's my fault?! you forget things too!! like our ANNIVERSARY!!! bf: 0 you: 1
ooooo a PS2!!!! totally not super old! YDI.. who gives a ps2.. if it were a ps3 then yes fyl
YDI for buying him a PS2. That was only released almost a decade ago...
#43, first off, PS2's are still being produced because Sony hasn't dumped the console. It's called reliability. Secondly, people are very much buying PS3's. It's ahead of the 360 in Europe and Japan, and not too far behind overall. Moreover, PS3 sales figures have been very strong lately, after the release of the PS3 Slim.
You guys are ******* weird. Everyone I know at least makes some mention/celebration when they've been together for a year. Some people even do that stupid monthly "anniversary" shit. Why would you think no one notices that? That's an important date. He could at least give her a flower or something small as a token and mention it.
The only people who do the one month thing are pathetic teens who think they are "in love" but have the sense to know they won't make it to a year. Yet they want the gifts, so they celebrate monthly. It's not really a super common thing. Yearly first date is. Hell yes, it very much is. Although, I wouldn't know from experience, having never made it to 1 year with a mate.
Actually, I like the monthly thing. Admittedly we don't "celebrate" the 17th of every month anymore (it's been over 2 and a half years and we have a house being built) but we always remember to do something a little bit special, even if it is just a text saying "Happy Monthly Anniversary". Celebrate love people, it's better than killing each other!!!!!!!!
It's kind of a term that has adapted. Technically you're right. However, I think it's more like the term "gay" and it's transformation from "happy" to "homosexual" to "lame/undesirable/stupid".... To each their own. I don't like the monthly thing (anymore, although I participated at one point), but if you do, that's cool.