By WhoLikesPie - 25/07/2015 15:51 - United States - Tampa
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I think it's time to get rid of her op. You deserve so much better.
I had a boyfriend who did the same. So I am extremely familiar with it. People can say or think what they like about my comment but if she were being straight up she wouldn't have needed to lie about where she was. I don't even want to hear about how it could have been innocent. She was planning something for him. No one does that shit for 2 months in a row.
Ask her about it before jumping to conclusions, sometimes people have other things going on that they might find embarrassing. Check in with her and talk about it!
It could be a new relationship? I'm not really sure but there are tons of possibilities. She could be working two jobs, she could be volunteering, endless possibilities. Sometimes people just don't want to share certain things, she could be embarrassed. Also, OP hasn't shared a lot about this relationship, so we don't know how serious it is. He was doing an incredibly sweet gesture, yes. But that doesn't mean they have been together for a super long time. Trust is built, it's not automatically there. There are a lot of factors, in my opinion.