By psychic parents, how do they work? :( - 31/07/2013 22:49 - United States - Effingham
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#15...we dnt know if OP used a condom and it popped. Besides that condoms are still barriers that break. Maybe I'm old school but my belief is sex should only happen when you can take care of a family. To the OP... you were man enough to lay with her, man up and tell ya pops. Why lie?
64 I honestly do not think arbitrary goals help anyone. at best it makes people feel guilty if they break them, and when teenagers are taught that, whoever teaches them more often then not do not teach about condoms out other friend of birth control and end up doing more damage then good.
Although sex before marriage isn't a bad thing. I personally don't see how you can really love someone on all different levels without experiencing it. It just scares me, thinking that if I just randomly married a guy and he couldn't please me. I've been disappointed my whole life and I understand about teaching but damn. But I do fully believe that if you're "responsible" enough to have sex you should be responsible enough to support a child. Its called consequences of our actions. xD
98- The difference between what 20 said and what 64 said is the reasoning behind it. 20 was saying that if you aren't able to deal with the potential consequences of your actions then you shouldn't be doing it. Condoms can break, and if the individual can't afford or doesn't believe in abortion then they could be burdening society with a child they themselves are not able to care for. Waiting until marriage is a personal and/or religious choice and should only be the business of the person making it. Also being married has nothing to do with being able to care for a child.
No. #20 is talking about responsibility, #64 is talking about dogma. See the difference? What has marriage to do with this at all? People don't need to be married to be able to raise a child. And there are plenty of married couples who sure as hell should not breed.
Maybe he will accept a new born child in exchange for the fifty dollars..?
Not just first borns. ALL babies are expensive....up until they're 18 (sometimes longer) you will have to pay. Sometimes for some people, it never gets easier. Its all blood, sweat, and tears until the child becomes a respectable adult. Even then, watch out. xD
F your girlfriend's life. Tell your father and man the fuck up.
I might get thumbed down but oh well. Maybe OP won't have to tell his dad? Maybe OP wanted to ask his dad for advice about if OP and his girlfriend should keep the baby or not? I know guys who have asked their dad's for advice such as if the dad thinks it's best to get an abortion, keep or set the child up for adoption. Even though overall it is the woman's decision getting input doesn't hurt.
#102 well obviously he's more scared to ask for advice now that his dad said he'd kill him if she was pregnant. Maybe he's either gonna tell his dad or just try to figure it out on his own because from fear of disappointing his dad. That is if that is what OP had in mind.
I'm not surprised you'd rather pay 50 dollars for something that didn't happen to save your own hide from actions that teens shouldn't be doing anyway. As my father always told me when I was a teen " if you play, you pay." Pretty much scared the crap out of me to stay away from sex and men in general.