Considering it seems like a bit of a shock to the OP, I'm guessing she led him on and was only using him for his money. @OP: FYL.

Damn that sucks! She's a gold digger!

Especially if on these 10 dates, they were accompanied by other friends, like this one..

You'd think after 10 dates you'd at least kiss, hold hands, cuddle etc. How did you not see that coming? Then again, if you guys did do all of that and/ or more, than she's a dumb ****.

Are you kidding letting him pay for ten dates is reason to think it!!! What kind of female lets her male "friend" pay for EVERYTHING answer; a gold digging ***** ... Op you are better off knowing now and never dating this slit bag

There's not enough info to know whether the OP was just being a clueless idiot, or whether the girl knew OP wanted to date her and just used him for his money. Though I'm inclined to believe it was the former... 1. Were you accompanied by her friends on the other dates? Because that's not a date. 2. At any point during the ten dates, did you ask (or at least make it clear) that you wanted to be her boyfriend and wanted to go on dates with her. 3. At any point during the ten dates, did SHE indicate she considered them dates and treated you as anything more than a friend? 4. Did you make it clear WHY you were paying for her stuff? If you just insisted on paying without an explanation, she might have just assumed you were being a ridiculously nice friend. (Sometimes good friends will pay for their friends, especially if one of them is better-off than another.) And so on, and so forth. It just seems odd that you went on ten dates and were still unclear/confused about the status of your relationship with her. After ten dates, I'd think it would be pretty clear whether you were dating or not.

Have you considered the amount of slutty bitches in the world?

Now, I ain't saying she a good digger...but she ain't messing with no broke niggas.

Everyone has a decent point in this thread. It's apparent she's using him for free meals. Women like her give us women, who will offer to pay half (even on a first date), and actually pay half, a bad rep! OP, please find yourself an amazing woman who isn't out for your money. I'm sorry she dragged you thru 10 dates. Imagine if that question wasn't asked? You'd probably be going on dates for months to come before you realized she's using you.

Maybe it was the OP that decided to pay for all the dates, we don't know if the girl tried to pay for herself or not.

This is top notch!

More like money-zoned.

Bitch-zone her, in retaliation for using you like that.

-3, 32 I'd ask to split the check and when she starts to question it, I'd look her straight in the eye with a sky grin on my face. I'd respond "You didn't think this was a date, did you?"

@3 Generally with friend-zone at least the other person is honest enough to let them know they don't feel that way about them and that they're just friends. People complain about being "friend-zoned" but it's much better to have a straight-forward answer about someone else's feelings than to be strung along, deceived and used like OP was. This girl's not even a friend because a friend would actually care about someone enough not to do this. Unless there's a serious misunderstanding going on, she's not even worth the term "friend-zone."

Did osama know he was the most hated man in America?

He got reused. That's worse

^Touché

American pie reference ^

Lame. It's like a stand-up comedian explaining their jokes.

ydi for being a limp dick? you're slacking bro :p

Ah perdix. Your replies always make me smile.

Don't read self esteem books, but yea, what he said.

You've read too many romance novels