By ashily24 - 07/02/2018 15:00
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What if the “heavily pregnant woman” is his boss or coworker who asked for his help to her doctor visit? He wouldn’t be a cheating bastard, but still an asshole nevertheless.
Even if that were true, which it's not, OP's husband clearly knew where his wife's appointment was. He could have easily walked his ass over to see his pregnant wife. But I guess assisting your mistress/lover/girlfriend is more important than going to an appointment to see how your child and wife is doing. Cheaters are one of the worst people on this planet. To be in a marriage and step out of that vow and get another woman pregnant is one of the worst things you can do to someone. Freaking divorce me so I don't have to deal with you.
I didn't realize we were married. I guess that's pretty indicative of what went wrong. I told you I needed you to be more affectionate to me, but no, you kept neglecting me and callously treating me like your paycheck with legs. My decision to step out on you was driven mostly by how you treated me. I recognize that it didn't work out between you and me, but I can't let you leave thinking you were innocent in the failure of our marriage.
Did you not learn about context clues in elementary school? Why would a man be at an OBGYN with a woman that appeared “heavily pregnant” if she was just fat? There may be some obscure reason you could use to justify your lack of logical deduction, but everyone else is taking the OP’s word at face value.
He knew you were having an ultrasound, he presumably knew who the Dr. so why would he take another woman to the same doctor at essentially the same time? If he did that you may be better rid of him as he sounds like a hammer in a box of chisels.
Either he isn't the brightest tool in the shed like someone else has mentioned, or it could have been for either of the two reasons: (1) It shows how much he "cares" for his wife for him to not even remember who the doctor is, or (2) He did it on purpose since he is too much of a whip to reveal the truth to her, thus made sure the appointment was on the same date and around the same time so that she can catch him "accidentally"
Yes I agree he is an asshole but since my daughters father is also an asshole my best friend and now husband went with me to almost all my ultrasounds and was around for everything during my pregnancy with her while my ex only saw me 19 times and even missed her birth (he came and saw us the next day) she actually prefers my husband over her own father when we see her (I was forced to give her up for adoption) so who knows op you might be better off with out your douchebag husband
Okay, but if it were a friend he was taking, he would be honest and tell her he's taking a friend to the doctor since the sperm donor is an asshole.