By Noname - 05/03/2009 02:18 - United States

Today, I took my girlfriend to a very nice restaurant. I thought it would be a good place to pop the question. I gave the ring to the waiter and asked him to put it on her dessert plate. When she saw it she picked it up, put it down and said "no". Then she started to eat the dessert. FML
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aww, thats so mean D: but how long were you two dating? maybe shes just not ready for marriage for example, if you only dated for 1 or 2 years. maybe its a good thing that you two wait, cause sometimes couples marry way too soon, when they're not ready.

Wow. In a way, I always feel bad for people who get proposed to when they're not interested - it really does put them on the spot and unless the one proposing is a complete jacka**, the one who says no is the bad guy. That really, really sucks. My sympathy for her ends there b/c she had no reason to be such a . . . wow. So heartless about it. I would have been tempted to snatch her dessert plate away, say 'no' and stick HER with the bill. Even if you handled t he situation with grace, it's perfectly reasonable to break up with her citing the fact that you don't want to waste your time with someone who sends mixed messages. And I mean: not seeing her at all, not hanging out with her friends, insisting that your friends act like true friends and drop her like a bad habit. How awful! Best of luck to you.

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aww, thats so mean D: but how long were you two dating? maybe shes just not ready for marriage for example, if you only dated for 1 or 2 years. maybe its a good thing that you two wait, cause sometimes couples marry way too soon, when they're not ready.

Well either way he didn't deserve to be turned down so rudely.

That hurts. Sorry man.

what a bitch! picked it up then put it down and said no? was the ring not good enough for little miss priss? its not the size of the diamond that counts. its the thought of wanting to spend the rest of your life with her that counts. that was mean on her behalf.

Wow. In a way, I always feel bad for people who get proposed to when they're not interested - it really does put them on the spot and unless the one proposing is a complete jacka**, the one who says no is the bad guy. That really, really sucks. My sympathy for her ends there b/c she had no reason to be such a . . . wow. So heartless about it. I would have been tempted to snatch her dessert plate away, say 'no' and stick HER with the bill. Even if you handled t he situation with grace, it's perfectly reasonable to break up with her citing the fact that you don't want to waste your time with someone who sends mixed messages. And I mean: not seeing her at all, not hanging out with her friends, insisting that your friends act like true friends and drop her like a bad habit. How awful! Best of luck to you.

Your sayingbreak up with her because she isn't ready for marage? Thats aweful! Shame on you

#4 i was going to mention taking her dessert. i decided not to. but yeah, i had that same idea about taking the dessert and dumping her. i should have mentioned that. oh well. well said #4. i couldnt have said it better myself.

hey atleast she didnt leave u eating the dessert by yourself

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Cool story bro.

wow talk about level-headed, just saying no and taking it off and proceeding to eat lol sorry dude

Life lesson learned: Never get married. Seriously, what positive thing has marriage ever done for anyone? It weakens relationships more than it strenghtens them... Also, #7, it's quite stupid to think that just because she said no, it means she doesn't like him. She might have certain believes that keep her from getting married or she might just want to wait untill it's the right time. Whatever it is, it's quite ignorant to dump her just because she said no. After all, not wanting to get married has got absolutely nothing to do with how much you love someone.

Dude... Yes!!