If they wanted to be involved, don't be dicks about it

they are just jeleous op don't worry

Your parents may be suffering from bitchiness syndrome, they need to see a doctor now before it's too late

Your family sounds nice...

Maybe try explaining the situation to your relatives? It wouldn't be good to start your marriage on a bad foot with your family.

People still send letters in this day and age?

Did your parents really expect to be invited after that? They might be your parents but doesn't mean you have to accept that behavior at your wedding.

So glad you found your significant other. You two can elope or just go down to the court and get married. The only thing you need is each other. Everyone else is just extra or unnecessary.

I'm sorry it's going so badly for you with your family. Weddings are meant to be about bringing two people who love each other together with their family and friends, but sometimes people manage to make it all about themselves. Sadly sometimes emotional events bring out the selfishness and insecurities in people instead of their more caring qualities. I Hope you'll manage to patch things up with your parents without any long festering resentments, but don't feel obliged to if you're not ready, and I hope it doesn't overshadow your wedding for you!

you do you booboo