By Less Friendship, More Cash - 06/05/2016 11:54 - Canada - Vancouver

Today, I realized one of my best friends was only friends with me because I would take her shopping, spoil her regularly, and help her out financially. She moved to another province and only contacted me whenever she wanted money. After I refused a couple of times, she deleted me on Facebook. FML
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crazy_bananas 31

You are a really good person, but you should probably stop doing all that for everyone. See who your real friends are OP.

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HrothgarXII 21

Though it sucks right now, it's good you found this out and can move on - unhealthy friendships are not friendships worth keeping.

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crazy_bananas 31

You are a really good person, but you should probably stop doing all that for everyone. See who your real friends are OP.

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may14th 26

It sucks when such good and generous people are taken advantage of.

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deathshead 19

that it does, sadly we live in a world where people have no problem taking advantage of people like that.

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HrothgarXII 21

Though it sucks right now, it's good you found this out and can move on - unhealthy friendships are not friendships worth keeping.

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dlToTlb 10

is she burrowing money or asking for money? if she's asking for money..direct her to the nearest highway and give her a piece of cardboard

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whysobeachy 37

Leeches never make good friends, OP.

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EagleSonOfEagle 11

Hopefully you learned this lesson before you spent too much on her. Think of it like this: Those who ask you for moneey the most are the ones who usually deserve (And appreciate) it the least. By continually giving handouts to someone, you start to make them feel entitled to them. Find someone who loves you for who you are, not what you can buy them.

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EagleSonOfEagle 11

Oops, appreciates you not loves you.... my mistake

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anarchymaniac 22

You are better off without that person. I'm sure you'll find someone who wants to be friend with you for who you are not what you have in your wallet, good luck OP.

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Dodge4x4Ram 46

Getting taken for your kindness happens quite often. Don't feel too bad, some people just suck at life.

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slothstronaught 11

Sorry to hear that op. I too share the gift of human kindness. Remember not to turn cynical, it means your a special person. :)

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Chazzster 28

Sorry you had to learn an unpleasant life lesson that way. At some point I think most of us have experienced that with friends or relatives. When we care about people we naturally want to help them if we can and there is a need. But then there are some who would abuse that and then have no respect for the giver. Best to find out now who is a real friend than to let it go on too long. You are a good person, there will be other friends in your life soon enough. In the end, it's not good for the one who always lets others fix their problems either - They learn manipulation and dependence instead of useful life skills.

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