By Anonymous - 03/01/2011 08:42 - United States
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When women want it, men are supposed to jump and when men want it, women can conveniently have a headache or something... is that it? Once again, it is all about the women...
The thing is, a lot of men will tell you that all you have to do is say you want sex, now... or just start jerking him off, or wear something sexy. I think it's a lot of talk (not a lot of men want to admit they're not always in the mood, perhaps it's some sort of Man Code that makes them feel like a lesser being). It's very frustrating. I'm a woman, with a much higher sex drive than most men I've met. Much like tv comedy shows where men start trying different things to get their wives in the mood (dinner, flowers, etc), I start trying different things, and each guy will say something different like "All you have to do is ____________" It ain't so. Men and women are sexually complex.
Actually, the reason we do it is because we have to keep up the "man = sex hungry beast with a penis for a brain" image people (especially women) have bestowed upon us. If I'm not in the mood, I'll usually say it, but then she'll usually make some stereotypical comment about how guys are always in the mood...
In her defense, most guys -are- in the mood all the time, or at least anytime I want something (which is about average - not too much, not too little). Hell, it usually even goes beyond how much I want! I realize we're all human and we all have our "off" and "on" days, but there's just something about men coincidentally being in the mood 99% of the time.