By unwanted daughter - 02/07/2014 15:54 - Canada - Oliver
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Are you sure she doesn't just mean you're not good at eating/drinking
It's a shame that the irresponsible ones are the ones more likely to end up accidentally pregnant. imagine how different the world would be if it were the kindest most decent responsible people who sucked at using birth control and ended up with all the "unwanted" babies while all the idiots never had kids
Well My mom feels the same. But i think its because i have a twin brother. Cuz we kinda destroyed her body
This is an awful comment. Having a baby, or even twins, doesn't ruin someone's body. All moms I know say it's worth it, and many moms I work out with regained their fitness and have smokin' bodies ... even after multiple pregnancies. "Ruining my body" is one of the last things I worry about when thinking about having kids.
That's just an excuse we use to explain why we gained weight. If 18 years later you're still blaming your kids for your improper diet and lack of exercise, you have some issues. At that point it isn't baby fat anymore. It's just fat, and you can't blame it on your kids forever. Many women continue to exercise during their pregnancy or start again after having the baby.