And the World keeps spinning...Perhaps there's more to the story? (karma)

You said it!!

I feel your pain!! I am in the same situation. Hugs.

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Okay, but he didn't cheat...

He said he refused to cheat

He never said he refused to cheat he said he refused to leave his wife. He might or might not have cheated.

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Guys, HE DIDN'T CHEAT from what I can gather, anyways

It looks like as if the coworker tried to seduce him, but he told her to go away, and now he is divorced for some reason

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Absolutely he cheated. That's implied with the phrase, "refused to leave my wife for", and is always used to refer to the other woman. Any time the 'other woman' complains it's always, "he won't leave his wife for me, waa waa". Cheaters need to die. I am so happy he's miserable. I only wish the home-wrecking slut was miserable too.

Uh...it happens to everyone. Not special.

I'm sorry, but you've got to deal with it...

I feel for you though.

Can't always expect a win in life.

At least you're not the guy that married her.

I agree. It would be worse if you're the guy that ended up marrying her. All she's going to do is try and cheat on him once she's bored with the new marriage.

Well your ex probobly didn't realize how lucky she was to be with someone that is loyal enough to not leave her. Don't worry someone will realize it and come to you.

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It can be spelt 'realised' as well and you can't spell it either.

also what are you talking about it says he REFUSED to leave his wife for her

Oh the irony