By voltronn - 23/01/2010 05:04 - France
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are u one of those people that don't bother with any of your friends nemore now that u hav a boyfriend? ... and just now ur realising your mistake?
I'm with #1. The way you say 'to make him think I had a life outside of him' makes me think you spend pretty much all of your time with him, which means you blow off any other invites from friends... which is why they didn't invite you? Because they basically expected a no? If that's true, just talk to them and apologize, tell them you'd still like to come out with them sometimes. Absolutely don't, however, lie to your boyfriend for dick all reason (??) and therefore move closer to having to lie to your friends about spending time with your boyfriend, because he broke up with you for being a liar.
Ergh >.> Well mabey if you didn't lie to people, to make excuses for not seeing them, so they'd think you're popular.. you'd be more popular. YDI. way to make a good lover... lie to your other half... that's what everyone wants. o_O
Whats wrong with just spending time with your boyfriend? If he happens to run into one of your friends in the future and mentions how you had fun at the party (which Im sure you'll tell him you did), they're gonna say that they have no clue what hes talking about and hes gonna know you're a liar. He'll probably think you lied because you were with another dude. YDI
This. Lying to your boyfriend about something like that is ridiculous, in my opinion. Assuming you're out of high school, he won't (or shouldn't) be too concerned with you having this hot social life. If he doesn't know you for exactly who you are (no life and all!) why are you together? An extra dosage of YDI if you're playing hard to get. >:(