By alone - 20/4/2019 02:00
Today, I found out that my fiancé has been talking to another girl behind my back about how much he hates being with me. Turns out he’s been talking to her everyday for 3 months, and she kept pushing him to leave me, but he was only staying because I cook for him. FML
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By  jbuckets_404  |  38

OP, your cooking is "merely" the simplest excuse that he gave her for not leaving you, a skill that either of them could easily learn if willing to put in the effort.

I'm certain that there's plenty of OTHER positive reasons regarding you that he DIDN'T want to mention in order to keep her interest.

Nonetheless, he broke your trust after not being man enough to stop paying her attention after Minute #1. (Much less Day #90!)
As painful as it is (and for which you have my earnest sympathies), it's better that you found out now before too late.

As the great personal advice columnist Ann Landers stated, "It's much better to wish that you weren't alone - than to wish that you were...."
Best of luck, OP! :-)
[BTW, you can always cook for me anytime that you like - to keep those skills sharp. ;-) LOL --Humor: It's a hell of a thing! Shared between friends esp. in times of need or pain.]

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By  jbuckets_404  |  38

OP, your cooking is "merely" the simplest excuse that he gave her for not leaving you, a skill that either of them could easily learn if willing to put in the effort.

I'm certain that there's plenty of OTHER positive reasons regarding you that he DIDN'T want to mention in order to keep her interest.

Nonetheless, he broke your trust after not being man enough to stop paying her attention after Minute #1. (Much less Day #90!)
As painful as it is (and for which you have my earnest sympathies), it's better that you found out now before too late.

As the great personal advice columnist Ann Landers stated, "It's much better to wish that you weren't alone - than to wish that you were...."
Best of luck, OP! :-)
[BTW, you can always cook for me anytime that you like - to keep those skills sharp. ;-) LOL --Humor: It's a hell of a thing! Shared between friends esp. in times of need or pain.]

By  bloopaloop  |  20

Good job, you’re one of the horde of emotional losers. Get a real relationship where you don’t have to blame the other person for something because you’re with someone who isn’t guilty of anything.

By  wanderlustonfire  |  4

I can’t imagine the pain. Though, I have to say It’s good you found out. At least now you know how much of an ass he is before saying ‘I do’!! That’s what I call a blessing in disguise!