I'm sorry, some people really just are pieces of shit. I hope the best for you and your baby--let him go and find someone who deserves you.

Karma will take care of it find a real man who can care for you and your baby girl

Passive-aggression at its finest! A dumpee gets sympathy fucks, a dumper does not.

So let's tally it up. He's irresponsible, abusive, an asshole, coward, philanderer, liar, and manipulator. On the other hand he could be physically abusive, emotionally unstable, bad in bed, have bad hygiene and be physically repulsive. See? It could be worse.

Kick him out and start the child support case now. I hope you have family and friends who can help when the baby comes

He should expect a lawyer now.

Sounds like its time for you to leave. Clearly he's not going to stop the affair. and this isnt a good situation for you or you child as you cant trust him. I would say get out now while you cam still support yourself before he puts you in a situation where you are "trapped". Love is never a good reason to force yourself into a relationship the other person has clearly been out of for quite some time now