But did he finally get a job?!

(Couldn't resist, but sorry for your troubles. :-( Hope things get better for you soon.)

What kind of “job” was he looking for?

Actually, I think that’s the last place anyone would look.

I have known two people who have been stalked via their account on that platform.

At least he not cheating on you with a crack head or a whore. I think he’s got a type: business women

I wish men were more honest... tell him he needs to not be monogamous and that he should not encumber a woman with his polygamy while posing as exclusive