Gross.

and you didn't feel that?

EW

E.W.

I'm sorry but that is nasty and I bet that was awkward for your bf, trying to enjoy seeing your ****** and ends up seeing some huge boil

hey, don't feel bad about it. not even after all the nasty comments you got here. because if they had ANY common sense WHATSOEVER they would know that can happen from anything. from sexual activity irritating it, to going for a walk and getting to sweaty down there. it can happen. they are just to ignorant to realize stuff like that. but guess what? karmas a bitch and they'll get what's coming to them for trying to be cool and saying you need to wash your shit. xD

I wouldn't go as far as to telling you you're nasty, because most women experience something similar at one point (or sometimes several points) in their life, but I do wonder how you didn't notice this earlier. I once had some ingrown hair down there and noticed pretty much immediately. Of course, that might've been because mine was right there where the thighs and crotch meet, meaning they got irritated extremely easily, but still. You should keep up with your personal bits a little bit more. Personal hygiene, while most likely not contributing to you having the boil, does ensure you NOTICE something funky is going on down there. You don't deserve it by any means, but do check your privates for this kind of stuff. Also, FYL for having your boyfriend find it. I bet that was humiliating. I hope he's not a douchebag and wasn't mean about it.

this is why we have gynecologists

Ow. I hate getting ingrown hairs cause they're a pain to dig out, and sometimes they do get infected if I don't get all of them. But never that bad. Always really small. I hope that you got it taken care of dear.

Probably an ingrown hair that needs to be pulled out

eww. that sucks! go to the doctor and see What's up.

thank heavens your bf found it... but uhm how did you not find it?