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By Anonymous / Sunday 8 May 2011 19:21 / United States
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By  xk75  |  4

breakup with a boyfriend of 3 months? I'd give the op the same advice.

By  Docbee  |  11

wise words young grasshopper....

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  xk75  |  4

breakup with a boyfriend of 3 months? I'd give the op the same advice.

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  PurpleRae420  |  0

Ok your dads a dick for that! It doesn't matter she ha feelings for her ex and he broke her heart can happen to anyone y'all must of never felt it!

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  seanders  |  10

You should listen to your father OP, you whiny bitch.

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  mintcar  |  9

Whether the dad was giving good advice or not, he could've been a lot nicer to the daughter. I think that's what number 1 meant by being a dick. He was a little insensitive.

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  ImThePope  |  2

Seriously OP, quit your moaning. 3 months? I grew over a girl who led me on for three years, in about 2 weeks.

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  ColdplaySucks  |  18

Seriously? Contemplating your life over some one night stand boyfriend? Stop whining like a bitch, grow up, and get over it. If can't handle the "drama", wait 4 more years before having another date. No wonder he broke up with you. YDI.

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  Anai08  |  17

Was OP's Dad being a bit insensitive? Yeah. Do I blame him? No. It's worrying to me that OP feels "life isn't really worth living" because she's not in a relationship anymore. Especially after 3 months-you kind of need to toughen up there. All it says about you is that your not secure enough in your own skin, and not mature enough to be in a relationship OP.

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  abbi96x  |  0

3 months? You're going to have breakups in your life and if you feel that 'life isn't worth living' after such a short relationship, I dread to think how you'd feel of the relationship had been a few years..

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  country13100  |  0

this is true !!(:

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  ImThePope  |  2

LOL 98, its funny because it's true.

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  YacL  |  15

Yeah, three months, Op, you don't have to be all distraught over a three month relationship that came to an end. But still, your father could have worded that a little... Uh, more nicely... like a supportive father...

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  FuniiBunii  |  0

Omg !' OP ur dad is right even tho he was ride bout it . And people say easily "get over it", but they forget that it's easy 2 say hard 2 do.

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  laughattack98  |  0

It bothers me that her 'life is over' because her boyfriend broke up with her and she is being whiny, but isn't your dad supposed to atleast show you support and hey he could've lied a little for her. She also could've of been really close to this guy 3 months is a longer time then it seems. But then again she could be a drama queen so.

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  babisugars  |  0

omg three months thats ages you poor thing you should put on sum sexy shoes and just go out nd find a new guy!!!!! dont worry bout him (: (: MEN ARE ALL ASSHOLES THEY DESERVE TOO ROT (except my bf chad hehehehehehe)

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it's true, life isn't perfect. you have to realize that bad things will occur, so suck it up because most likely things like that will happen again. getting sentimental isn't going to help

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  kkutting  |  2

I agree with 55! oh & I hope your screen name is for The Cure cause if it is AMAZING! sorry, had to say that I love The Cure & Robert Smith is brilliant!

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  babisugars  |  0

omg why did so many people thumb me down wtf fuck you

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  minktheshrink  |  0

397- Probably because you're giving OP a hard time about 3months when you make it perfectly clear that you've been with your "bf Chad" for 5 months and talking about "together forever" or whatever. Learn to apply you life to others' situations.

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  itsgen  |  15

wtf no he's not! this girl has been with her bf for 3 months wow big deal, omg the world is gonna end living isnt worth it :o yeah right OP you grow the fuck up and stop bitching maybe that's why your ex isn't with you anymore

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  Snowlight_fml  |  7

My brother would have done the EXACT same thing (and has done so before). If she was looking for sympathy, she should've gone to her mother. Sometimes, people just need a wake up call.

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  rttr  |  18

397 because your comment is stupid. I'll list a few things. "all men are stupid". What about ghandi, or MLK jr.? That's like me saying all women are sluts, (in your case thats true). 2nd you ate stupid. The way you write, your profile picture, etc. I could eat a bowl of alphabet soup and shit a better paragraph then you. You are so fucking stupid, please shut up.

By  Emmy_The_Great  |  2

You should've said the same thing back to him.

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  YacL  |  15

Would you REALLY say that to your Dad? Would you stand there, in front of him, and tell him to grow the fuck up? I sure as hell wouldn't...

By  Docbee  |  11

wise words young grasshopper....

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  TrollsFTW  |  0

that 70's show reference?

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If what you mean by that is "Lols. The dad is not coddling her because he wants her to wake up to the reality that no one cares about how clingy she is" then yes, you are correct.

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  Katy326  |  10

haha these are the girls that get pregnant at 13 because they put too much value in a 3 month long relationship. then after about 6 months they have sex because they're "in love" and they get preggo. why would life not be "worth living" after 3 months??

By  RawrGoesTheDino4  |  0

wow was Ur dad like dropped when he was young it's okay stay in there things will get better

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  whits106  |  0

I know my iPhone makes 'ur' get spelt with a capital U as part of it's autocorrect feature. that is one the rare occasion I actually use shortened text talk rather than proper spelling.

By  ramboman19  |  8

wow. nice parenting

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  HahaYDI  |  0

OP and her boyfriend could have been really good friends before they started dating, so it could have been a lot more devastating. It's hard to take a stand like that when you don't know the whole story.

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  flighted  |  0

^yeah, HahaYDI has a point. I was best friends with a guy for 4 years, despite my knowing of him having a history of cheating on his girlfriends I took the risk thinking it'd be different and unofficially dated him for about a month. by the time he got the courage up to ask me to go out with him and I said yes, was the day he cheated. I could say I was extremely devastated for the longest while so this person has a point

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68/104: You're right-- we don't know the details. However, this is a perfect example of why it's important to retain your self-identity when you're in a relationship. I can totally understand being devastated after a breakup, but thinking you've lost your reason to live is a huge red flag. Even after you get married or otherwise make a long-term commitment to someone, letting your self-worth become dependent on that person is a bad idea, and can even destroy a healthy relationship.

By  farfulz  |  6

generally, dad's aren't very good with the sentimental stuff..

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