By daddylove - 12/06/2011 04:21 - United States
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Just because she is young doesn't mean it's any easier to let a relationship go. Some people experience very strong emotions and it's all the same relative to the age. Of course she'll look back and agree it wasn't worth the tears, but age doesn't make things easier. It's still painful experience either way, it makes me so mad when people act like it's easy. Letting anything go is terrible, so shh.
I'm not saying it is easy but I'm explaining why her father didn't care he knew that her relationship wouldn't last and was just trying to avoid the drama. Do you really believe that high school relationships last. My friend has had over 15 girlfriends this year. Now you're probably thinking "yeah but he's a guy" well I have another friend who is a girl that has had 7 relation ships this year. They both were "dumped" several times and were sad about it, however they knew that it was just high school and it probably wouldn't have lasted anyways.
69 & 72 - I am going to have to disagree. you can fall in love with someone in a short period of time (although many people say it and don't know the true meaning of love). My (taking a break) ex boyfriend who is 23 told me he loved me after almost two months of being together, we were both in love with each other after a short period of time because of the connection and we were certain we were soul mates. and even though we're on a break it's for many reasons but we want to get back together in the future and we're still best friends and have feelings. so people can fall in love in a short period of time. now, about high school/junior high relationships, although there are a good amount of people who stay together for years past high school, I would say that chance is 2%. kids need to realize when they date in high school they're still growing up and many relationships don't last. however, if yours does last past high school, good for you! :) I think those relationships are so cute
The fact is, relationships ending hurts no matter what age. You can't say it's easy because it's different for every person. You might think it's easy but the next will think it's tough. I didn't have heaps of boyfriends when I was in highschool, in my last year I met a really great guy and now I'm madly in love with him. So you can suck my left one.
you probably cry constantly about everything so even when he is concerned he thinks better of getting involved
Reasons why I completely understand your dad: 1) he's your dad. The chances are big that he just isn't interested in your failed relationship and all your sad emotions. You'll be more lucky with your best friends, maybe even your mom. 2) you are probably a teen. It might be sad, but parents (and people in general) don't take teens that seriously. 3) it was a relationship of only six months. Many people wouldn't care. At all. 4) whilst reading this FML, I immediately imagine a 14-year-old teenager who's hysterical crying and sobbing on her bed. That might be annoying for the other people who live in your house. I still gave you a FYL, because you're sad and your dad was harsh.
Bwoa, it's common knowledge that, in general, women are more sensitive, more caring, more interested in feelings...than men. True, her dad could still say something nice and comforting, but I think the majority of women can do things like that better than the majority of men.
Ok people are pissing me off I have been dating a girl for 7 months and i know im in love so it doesnt matter what age OP is?! Age doesnt decide when your aloud to be in love seriously people! her dad is an ass cuz if she reely was in love and that happened im gonna guess it hurts like a bitch. When u get some real normal people emotions chickk with the weird picture let us know and MAYBE u will understannd
#10 - I agree with all of that. OP, I just got out of a relationship of two years. I shed a few tears before (as I knew it was gonna happen) and a few tears after (regretting some things I had said, knowing life was gonna be different without her). But I tell myself that shit happens, we move on and live life. No amount of crying or being depressed is gonna change anything, so why bother? I have better things to do with my life than sit there and mope around all day and bitch and moan about it, and I am sure you do too.
"When u get some real normal people emotions chickk with the weird picture let us know and MAYBE u will understannd" You, my friend, are so much the sterotype of a whiney teenager who doesn't know what love is. Ffs, seven months together and engaged. You make me roflol. Oh, and for your information, I am 3 years and...one month in a relationship. But ofcourse, seven months is a huge amount of time, you should almost start thinking about grandchildren.
wow 3 months? maybe you should consider having him "put a ring in it" cause I know guys and any guy whi sticks around for THAT long without bringing up the future is hittin somethin on the side! And yeah we have been dating for 7 months but I have been in live with the girl for 4 years but she couldnt date till she was 16
Oh shit don't shoot! Bitch you don't know me fuckin hypocrite. You don't know the story of why we r engaged so fuckin soon. So stfu. You don't even got a dayum reason to be commenting. Maybe they do got more experience , Maybe its because they be fuckin old as hell. Dont hate fuckin wanna be :)
hey, big talker, I knew I was in love 3 months in, when I was 16. I've been with the same guy for 4 years, I'm 20 now, your age. stop acting all cocky and get off your high horse, he could easily be engaged for that long. not everyone's going to fail like you're making it sound. stop hating on the younger kids.