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If I were the wife I'd want someone to tell me...
same way as if I were the "girlfriend" the first thing I'd be doing is telling the wife!
Then again I find it hard to believe that OP didn't have a clue about him being married, it might just be me being over sceptical but surely there must have been some red flags?

By  usarmywife  |  19

I would have said yes and let her know when they came to dinner so he also would have been newly single, not for your benefit but for his wife. I know his wife is not your problem but if I were being cheated on, I'd want to know so I can handle it

  Dave_Davington  |  33

Unless he has an IQ in the single digits, he's not going to ask his wife to dinner with a girl with whom he's cheating on her. More likely, they have some sort of open relationship.

By  Summaria  |  10

I'm so confused.

Did he know he was your boyfriend for 7 months? How far do you live apart?
Have you had contact these 7 months?

Was he married before these 7 months or did he just get married? If so didn't you notice a change in his behaviour or his mentioning of a new wife?