By ILuvYouSoldiers - 26/06/2009 07:57 - United States

Today, at the airport, my mom began talking about how useless the war in Iraq was, and how dumb the soldiers that serve there were for enlisting during the war. The soldier at the vending machine near us caught my eye. I mouthed, "Sorry" and he mouthed, slowly, "You fuckin' better be." FML
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We should ship your mother over to Iraq. God bless our soldiers.

alwaysalady 0

That's awful. I give soldiers hugs and tell them thank you. Your mom needs to learn a little respect.

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I think people are missing the point that the OP was NOT the one saying those things, it was her mother who obviously doesn't know when to refrain from saying certain things. The soldier did not have to take out his anger on the OP, especially since she was apologizing for her mother's rudeness. The soldier had a right to be angry, but at the mother, not the OP. I support our troops, the majority who joined for the right reasons (to protect our country), and I will support why the president deploys them when the time is right. However, I think that there are a lot of misinformed people on both sides of the arguments presented here and I think everyone needs to review the facts of what is going on as well as foreign affairs and foreign policy. After entering into a field where I had to learn more about all of this, it really changed my opinion on many things and confirmed my opinions on many others. No matter what side of the argument you agree with, it is always best to check your facts to make sure you know what you are talking about.

Your mom need to learn some ******* respect

ok i agree with you...war is not the answer to solve problems, but that is the only way the terrorists would listen, is with violence. and you shouldn't be saying things like this bc those soldiers are fighting for you and our country's safety. So until you put on that uniform and start defending our country, you better watch what you say.

Honey, honestly. How long has this war lasted? And for how long has it been about anything but terrorism at all? I can't believe people still buy the terrorism excuse. It's like someone actually thought they're still there because they're "looking for bin laden". :S

Blue_Coconuts 7

You're going to Basic, but becoming an Officer? Learn how OCS/ROTC works before trying to spew some bullshit. Because that's not how it goes for them.

I don't agree with your mom but "you ****** better be" wtf was that!?? that was rude!! I understand the soldier was angry when he heard your mom but you apologized for her (something you didn't have to do because it was her opinion and not yours) and he tells you that!! I would've been like "not because I'm with someone it means I agree with that person's opinion a**hole!!"

Spiffy 0

Well, it is a pretty useless war...

kiit23 0

For crying out loud. It doesn't matter if the soldier felt disrespected or not, because THE PERSON HE WAS RUDE TO WASN'T THE ONE SAYING IT. She apologized for someone ELSE being rude, and got a bitchy response. It has nothing to do with respecting soldiers, or war, or anything. That particular soldier did NOT deserve respect because he was rude to someone who didn't do anything but say they were sorry. Cut the goddamn fights about grammar. It is NOT the end of the world if someone uses it poorly, and making a big deal out of it really just makes you look like a douchebag. Stop debating the war, that wasn't the issue here at all.

To OP - that sucks. That should not have been directed at you. Unrelated: For those thinking that there are other ways to resolve conflicts rather than by force/violence, I challenge you to come up with a single method that has actually managed to maintain peace and non-violent conflict resolution across the entire world at any point in history. At ANY point in history. I don't like war as much as the next guy, but I do understand that we are (unfortunately) a violent species, like just about every other living being on this planet. Survival of the fittest and all that. The point is you will never, never be able to establish world peace, stop wars all over the planet, and so on. Never. Will not happen. Why? Because there will always be one jerk that will take advantage of the situation and take/do things by force, and shape the world to his/her liking. Always. So how do you respond? Sit down and take it? Watch as your village/town/city/country is destroyed while hoping that your peaceful protest/diplomatic talks will help? Eventually your survival instincts will kick in and you'll start defending yourself. Congratulations, you now have a war. "An armed society is a peaceful society" - damn, there's some true words.

Gandhi kicked out one of the biggest empires in history (the British empire) without lifting a single finger. Bet Fox News doesn't tell you about that, does it? And have you forgotten the American civil rights movement? Oh I forget, you right-wingers don't really like black people, do you?

I don't see how in the world the United States live in peace. There's NEVER real peace. There's always hostility right since the moment you put one foot on any airport. I don't see how you believe that an agressive culture will lead to peace. Plus, we have intelligence, conscience, and free will. You don't pack yourself with weapons and invade countries by instinct. So it's not because "we humans are violent". Actually the first reason why wars exist is exactly what's happening in this thread: some people just can't respect the ones different and the ones who don't think like them. So they try to MAKE them think the same. Oh, that and the search for profitable resources smaller countries have. 0_0

yepp ok sweet just do a salt march into taliban held territory and use non violent resistance...that should get them!! once they see us lying down in front of them they wont shoot us or anything. self righteous people suckkk

especially people who decide to throw in the racism argument...where does it say ANYWHERE on the thread about people hating black people? get a grip

Please read my post: "actually managed to maintain peace and non-violent conflict resolution across the entire world at any point in history" Key phrase: "across the entire world" I'm well aware of many conflicts resolved through peaceful means, most notably of which is the Civil Rights Movement led by MLK. However, these events are usually very isolated to the country itself (hence "civil"). So, again, I challenge you to come up with a non-violent conflict resolution that established peace across the entire world, at ANY point in history. To make it slightly easier, I'll allow that to only cover what we call the 'civilized world'. Meaning, don't worry about unknown tribes in the Amazon that are still at war with each other.

"I don't see how in the world the United States live in peace. There's NEVER real peace. There's always hostility right since the moment you put one foot on any airport. I don't see how you believe that an aggressive culture will lead to peace." Not an aggressive culture, an ARMED culture. Basically what that means is simply: If I am threatened, I have the ability to defend myself. Put into different words - a culture/society that has the means to defend itself is a polite one.

The "armed" culture has come to an agressive one. If you haven't noticed, you don't have many foreign friends that have to travel to the U.S. "a culture/society that has the means to defend itself is a polite one." A culture/society that constantly uses armed repression as a way to rule over weaker countries to get profit out of them is NOT a polite one. A culture/society that gets involved in conflicts they initially had nothing to do with but still butts in in the name of "freedom", is NOT a polite one. Besides, I think the concept the rest of the world grew about the United States' policies and ways to "ensure freedom" should be enough to say it's definitely NOT a polite culture. And like 80% of the comments on this thread pretty much confirm that.

_pk_, please keep in mind I am trying to have a polite discussion here. I would appreciate if it you would as well. That said, I was not commenting on the US' culture, or any particular nation at that. That's an entirely different can of worms, worthy of a completely different discussion dealing with foreign policy. I think you missed my point about an armed society. I think you took it to mean that an armed society is polite to other societies. That's not what that phrase means. What it means is that an armed society is polite to itself and its members. Let's suppose two arbitrary people meet on the street. If both of them know that the other is armed (in any way), chances of them duking it out is much lower, because the personal risk of injury is a lot higher. Now, lets suppose one of them is armed, the other is not, and they both know it. The armed guy knows he has the upper hand. Depending on what type of person the armed guy is, things may get ugly very quickly. Because the personal risk of injury to armed guy is very low compared to the unarmed one. Not saying that two armed fellows will never duke it out. It will just happen much less frequently. Problem, of course, is that when it happens it tends to be very ugly. So, on a global scale, you can say that an equally armed world is a polite world. Ever heard of the ICBM Stalemate? Same thing.

lmmmr 0

_pk_- Thumbs up. Grasshoffle- Nowhere in this entire thread was it suggested that world peace is a realistic and attainable concept. Those bringing up peace to begin with are doing so as an alternative to this particular war that they feel is brutal and unnecessary. Claiming that the human race is an inherently violent species is like saying that men are inherently rude and women are inherently materialistic. I am as human as anyone else, and I am by no means violent. The same goes for everyone I know. Even if it were true, the fantastic thing about humanity is our ability for self-improvement. Using an "inherent" violence to justify inhumane behavior is simply laziness and unwillingness to acknowledge the potential for vast improvement. And your ideas about "armed societies" are just as unrealistic as world peace. There is no world in which all societies will be equally armed. In the realistic scenario, which _pk_ pointed out, all it creates is aggression, imperialism, and a false sense of dominance.

samtamrox 0

What your mom said was bad, but please remember that not all soldiers would respond in that manor. My brother is a soldier and he would not respond like that. Though the war may not be unneeded, or unwanted, people in the army are not to be blamed, they are just doing there job. Like you or me everyday. Please don't bad mouth the army, they are fighting for you. Sorry that the soldier responded like that.

i think we should delete this forum. everyone on here is an oversensitive idiot. >:]