Exactly. Also, we have no idea how their first date went - ever heard of love at first sight? Obviously the guy felt comfortable enough around you to introduce you to his parents. And while he may be a little (okay a lot) clingy and move a little (okay VERY) fast, the least you could do is tell him you're not interested. I feel sorry for the poor guy.

Think of the kids! THE KIDS! (Or, rather, just have a serious conversation with the guy instead of ignoring him like a complete toolbag bitch. It's the **** sapiens thing to do.) Yeah, I feel sorry for the dude, too. I'd feel like ass. |the kid|

I can't agree more with you guys. If OP get scared of him because it goes so fast, then she could say that she want things to go a little bit slower.

I agree. I think it's completely rude and bitchy to just stop answering someone's calls without any explanation as to why.

This was my first thought, too! OP needs to grow up and have a conversation with this guy and explain why she's no longer interested. It's so sad how quick young girls are to automatically assume every guy who pays them an ounce of attention is a "creeper."

The only freaking thread on this FML with any sense. I completely agree. Restating what everyone else has said, the best thing to do is to clearly and politely explain that you are not interested. Then the dude at least has something to go off of. Right now his mind is probably racing with every possibility as to why you aren't picking up, and it probably sucks. Besides, what kind of case would you have if something bad happened, and you never even expressed that you didn't want to associate with him?

Im the one who posted this... to all the people calling me a bitch, there was a lot more to the story that I couldnt include in because of the text limit. We just didnt have alot in common, the more I got to know him the weirder he got and he was getting clingy very quickly. Plus his parents were freak, tried to prevent me from leaving their house at one point and freaked me out. OF COURSE I TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT. Was just trying to figure out what to say when he called and left that voicemail. Since I have talked to him and broke it off and he seemed to understand. Then he begin harrassing me via phone calls and text and today he showed up at my work. Ive had to change me phone number and co workers have told me since i left work he has been back asking for me and they had to call the cops becuase he was refusing to leave and got violent with my boss. Im not a bitch.

It's ok, according to OP knows that he can read her mind, so she doesn't have to say anything...

#15, I took a girl to meet my mum on our second date. Granted, I was absolutely terrified because I thought it was waaay too soon, but she lived a long way away and was only in town that weekend, and I couldn't get out of the appointment with my mum, so I took the plunge. It went well. My mum joked about burying this girl under the patio. Anyway I'm marrying this girl in May. So some people do it and aren't weird!

Meeting a romantic interest's parents doesn't have to be an uncomfortable, formal situation. Some people have a close, friend-like relationship with their parents, so it wouldn't seem so weird to casually meet them, even on a second date. Even more so if you had known the person for a while before deciding to go on a date. It doesn't automatically make them a creep.

64, Congratulations! And I agree, taking someone to meet your parents on the second date doesn't have to be weird.

Agreed. Whats weird is that OP never said why she stopped taking his calls. It seems like she just suddenly decided that she no longer likes him and never told him. The OP is just a bitch imo.

They went on 2 dates, if she stopped taking his calls after only 2 dates that doesn't make her a bitch. It's not like they had been dating for months and she suddenly disappeared. After not hearing from her after the 2nd date, he should kinda figure out what's going on. And meeting his parents?!

I stopped taking his calls because he was stalking me and his parents were freaks. I had to have him removed from my place of work yesterday becuase he came there looking for me and got violent with my boss when he told him to leave. Im not a bitch. hes a creep.

If he's as much of a creep as we think he is, chances are he was calling her from outside her house...

I can picture it now: "babe I love you so much...nice window shades btw" lol

And if he actually said "btw" in a sentence then he definitely is creepy , because no one actually says btw in real conversation

Oh, yeah. Totally sweet. If by sweet you mean ridiculously clingy and creepy. But, hey, at least he's in love with her, right?