By Jessch15 - 13/01/2012 12:45 - United States

Today, a guy took me to meet his parents on a second date. I stopped answering his calls afterwards, but he's just left me a voice-mail informing me that he's in love with me. I'm scared. FML
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Jessch15 tells us more.

Im the one who posted this... to all the people calling me a bitch, there was a lot more to the story that I couldnt include in because of the text limit. We just didnt have alot in common, the more I got to know him the weirder he got and he was getting clingy very quickly. Plus his parents were freak, tried to prevent me from leaving their house at one point and freaked me out. OF COURSE I TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT. Was just trying to figure out what to say when he called and left that voicemail. Since I have talked to him and broke it off and he seemed to understand. Then he begin harrassing me via phone calls and text and today he showed up at my work. Ive had to change me phone number and co workers have told me since i left work he has been back asking for me and they had to call the cops becuase he was refusing to leave and got violent with my boss. Im not a bitch.

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You stopped answering his calls, just like that, without even telling him you weren't interested in dating him any more? Why? How do you expect him to react to that? As far as he knows, you're still interested but temporarily not near your phone.

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megotswag 0

yeah you might need a restraining order here soon

420smoke420 3

Move away....maybe somewhere like Seattle and come meet my parents because I think I'm in love with you! Why aren't you answering my phone calls?

CaptainPickles72 18

I don't see the problem with this. It just seems that he likes you a lot (apparently loves you) and wanting you to meet his parents. There is nothing wrong with meeting someone's parents... it's not like he asked you to marry him or move in with him. Yeah, it seems he is moving too fast, but tell him so, otherwise he'll just keep trying to contact you since you didn't break it off or even tell him he's taking it too fast! I feel sorry for the guy, especially if he gets on FML and sees this! You can thumb me down if you want, but she pulled a real bitch move there!

You really don't see a problem with this? It was only 2 dates, if he can't take a hint when she doesn't answer his calls then he has serious problems! It's not like they had been dating for months, and meeting parents that soon is nuts! She's not a bitch, he's just stupid if he can't take a hint!

Im the one who posted this... to all the people calling me a bitch, there was a lot more to the story that I couldnt include in because of the text limit. We just didnt have alot in common, the more I got to know him the weirder he got and he was getting clingy very quickly. Plus his parents were freak, tried to prevent me from leaving their house at one point and freaked me out. OF COURSE I TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT. Was just trying to figure out what to say when he called and left that voicemail. Since I have talked to him and broke it off and he seemed to understand. Then he begin harrassing me via phone calls and text and today he showed up at my work. Ive had to change me phone number and co workers have told me since i left work he has been back asking for me and they had to call the cops becuase he was refusing to leave and got violent with my boss. Im not a bitch.

BIGBOY4rmAHM 19

Just be straight up with him. If he keeps harassing you then get authorities involved.

zeromarth 2

Wtf is wrong with you girls i did that with my now wife you guys have commitment problems you are all retared for thinking thats scary. get help stupid

Agreed. It's like "Someone Loves me? PANIC!"

My second date with a guy got crashed by my parents, siblings & grandparents... Fast forward six years... We have a two year old daughter & have been married three years! Hah!

Im the one who posted this... to all the people calling me a bitch, there was a lot more to the story that I couldnt include in because of the text limit. We just didnt have alot in common, the more I got to know him the weirder he got and he was getting clingy very quickly. Plus his parents were freak, tried to prevent me from leaving their house at one point and freaked me out. OF COURSE I TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT. Was just trying to figure out what to say when he called and left that voicemail. Since I have talked to him and broke it off and he seemed to understand. Then he begin harrassing me via phone calls and text and today he showed up at my work. Ive had to change me phone number and co workers have told me since i left work he has been back asking for me and they had to call the cops becuase he was refusing to leave and got violent with my boss. Im not a bitch.

Don't run. He won't understand. Call him. Meet him face to face and tell him exactly how you feel. It's sweet but too fast and you have concerns about him loving an idea of you before he really even knows you. Tell him that. Don't mince words. Be straight with him in hopes that he will be straight with himself.

Clamcreepy 7

I know it sounds good but this ****** might try to make her mince MEAT! if she's straight forward with him and say she's not in love with him. There is some crazy people in this world

redmnky21 8

you've not gotten out much if that's all it takes to scare u