The Haunting of FML House

I mean are you sure it's a shrine?

I guess you should nicely talk to your husband and see if he’s alright? and if not you should advice him to seek professional help!

Bye, Felicity!

she said bye....9 years ago

Seems like he just can’t get over his dead wife

That is honestly just really sad. He lost someone he loved, you should show some fuckin' compassion.

Agreed

While I agree, I don't think he should have married her if he was still in love with his wife who has passed. Grieving is horrible, but not everyone can cope with knowing something like that. He should have waited until he properly mourned and was able to let go.

She didn’t say anything to be heartless, you’re projecting and making asshole assumptions.

Finding out your husband has a shrine to someone and has hidden it away is devastating. Obviously it’s not out of malice or anything but it still hurts. You’d probably say he was an asshole if the first wife was still alive, but no because she’s dead suddenly she’s at fault for having feelings.

Show some fucking compassion huh? Fuckin hypocrite.

I think you should just let that go. Love him as best you can and forget you ever found that stuff in his closet

That's sad and sweet all at the same time.. but if you ever find he's building a shrine to you, RUN!

That’s honestly very creepy...

I had a female friend who lost her husband. She got a tattoo on her chest with his name on it. She later re-married. Still has the angel tattoo. Would that be considered a shrine?

No, that's completely different. She is honoring his memory and still being able to healthily move on and love someone new.

It's not like she cheated on him or left him or he has a reason not to love her. She died and he's devastated and you're not his first love. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you, just that he didn't stop loving her.