Honestly F your boyfriends life

His inadequacy is not your fault. Though maybe more foreplay would help. More oral play on his part wouldn’t hurt I’m sure. And if that’s something he doesn’t enjoy. Once again, his problem to work through.

Just give him a freebie once in a while where you say you honestly don't care if you come or not cause it's all about him. Let him know that it's all about spoiling him and letting him enjoy it. Being given permission to be greedy should allow him to relax.

not every female gets off from penetration. if he's not utilizing mouth and fingers to get off and is relying solely on intercourse, he needs to learn how to do it properly and stop pretending he's in a ****

I personally cannot O. it's a lot of pressure on my partner to make sure I'm enjoying myself. so I make sure I make sure I give them the effort for just them. It's give and take situation.

After he's been pounding for a while, fake an ****** to let him think he's got it, then go rub one out. Honesty is overrated.

Solution: put your vibrator in his hands and show him how to use it on you. Do it after he finishes.

you need a more talented boyfriend

All things equal, some women are harder to get to ****** than others. And some men are better at getting them there. But the truth of the matter is that most people are not **** stars who are paid to act. It’s relatively rare that a woman will get to ****** just by penetrative sex. Suggest to boyfriend try oral or a vibrator on you to get you to ****** then you can take care of him. Explain to boyfriend where your clit is if he is unclear on that. Also some women cannot take much direct stimulation and some need more. Have the discussion when both of you are relaxed, not during sex itself. Don’t belittle or insult him (or you) just have an honest discussion. Nobody knows what works for you unless you tell them. A couple of hints: (1) A woman’s clit gets somewhat erect when she is excited. Pay attention to what causes that - Change things up a bit if her clit is becoming smaller. Don’t change anything if she’s responding well. This is useful for oral. (2) The inside of a woman’s ****** gets warm and wet when she’s exited. A finger inside will tell you her status while you use a small vibe. Be sure to trim and file fingernails first. (3) Even if the woman is not very verbal you can tell when she has a real ****** - Usually the ****** quickly and momentarily contracts - You can feel this with your finger. She will appreciate it if then you switch to sucking on her clit so the ****** is stretched out a bit longer.