Paranoia

By Anonymous - 29/09/2020 10:01 - United Kingdom - London

Today, I asked a girl to move from Tinder to WhatsApp, after 3 weeks of nice chat. She said no way, and that I just wanted nudes and then unmatched. The only intention I had was getting to know her and asking her on a date. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 050
You deserved it 161

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tounces7 27

The fact that she's on Tinder in the first place with the expectation of finding something meaningful tells you all you need to know anyway.

Xatraris 37

Then ask on Tindr. Is it so hard to use 1 chat platform? I'm personally done with online dating because of that stuff. "Follow my insta, add my Snap." If you matched on this platform then actually use it. It really does seem that by moving to another platform you're either looking to send explicit pics or you're looking for clout. Maybe I'm wrong, but it's how I see it.

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Who doesn't want nudes? The difference is how annoying you are in asking for them.

Really? 11 people think all or most of the guys on Tinder don't want nudes? I have some bad news for you...

tounces7 27

The fact that she's on Tinder in the first place with the expectation of finding something meaningful tells you all you need to know anyway.

Xatraris 37

Then ask on Tindr. Is it so hard to use 1 chat platform? I'm personally done with online dating because of that stuff. "Follow my insta, add my Snap." If you matched on this platform then actually use it. It really does seem that by moving to another platform you're either looking to send explicit pics or you're looking for clout. Maybe I'm wrong, but it's how I see it.

Yeah, some people actually just need to get over themselves a little. If you asked nicely, I see no reason why she can't answer you the same way even if it is just to decline your request.

Asking a girl to change platforms mid conversation is the online equivalent to trying to get a girl away from her friends so you can roofie her. No matter how nicely you ask it will always be taken as a really creepy move.