Maybe you can "pencil in" a side piece into your calendar. Mid-September is almost here. Do your Kegels!

One or both of you needs to cut down on your schedule, or your abstinence streaks or just going to continue.

This seems like an avoidable problem

Don't want to be pessimistic but your husband might have a double life.

Remind each other that it is good for stress relief and should be higher priority over something else because it will provide a calmness and make other aspects of your life easier to tackle.

Even on weekends? You both gotta cut down work hours, that is not healthy.

I'm sorry, but YDI. That's a choice the both of you made. Maybe you shouldn't devote your every living minute to your career and actually start living instead.

Have you ever thought of using you Toys? Or even a side salad?

So stop making work your highest priority.

You both need to rein it in, or the lack of sex won't be the only problem in your relationship. You don't have to quit your jobs, but you could cut down on your hours, or even see if there's a possibility of you both going on sabbatical or an extended vacation. No job is worth the negative effects your mental and physical health can suffer.