Today, my boyfriend of 3 years felt comfortable enough with me to disclose that he had previously spent 4 years in a mental institute because he tried to kill his mother. He also told me we will be together forever. I'm scared. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my boyfriend told me he's been having doubts, but he still wants to stay with me. I asked him why he had been so nervous about us and he replied, "I don't know, just thinking about a future with you makes me feel nauseous". We've been together over 2 years now. FML
Today, in the same sentence, my boyfriend told me that he wanted to "spend the rest of his life with me," and "I want to break up with you because I can't face your family." FML
Today, my boyfriend and I were together for 10 months when he told me I’m the only person he’s ever been with who’s made him feel safe and able to be vulnerable and open up for the first time… and made him realise he has trauma to work through. He then dumped me on the spot so he could work through it. FML
Today, I went through my boyfriend’s phone. He'd told his brothers, mom, and mutual friends that I was at a psych ward, after I went crazy. We have been back together for four months now after that situation, so no wonder I got the vibe they hate me. Why lie about something so stupid? FML
Today, my boyfriend told me he wants to marry me and be the father of my children. Five minutes later, he told me he wants to experience death. FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years accidentally admitted to me that he settled for me because he doesn't think he can do any better. FML
Today, I admitted to my boyfriend of three years that I have been suffering from depression for a while now. He took it as a good time to dump me. FML
Today, my boyfriend of four years, who has never been anything but loving and supportive, told me after I made a joke that there has been “a change” in how he deals with people, that he has been “purging,” and that I could be next because he “has needs too.” FML
Today, I told my boyfriend I’m pregnant. He broke down crying because his mother is going to be so mad at him. He’s in his 30’s and we've lived together for over 4 years, it’s not like it was a drunken mistake, it just happened naturally. FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years told his friend that he decided a long time ago that he would never be faithful to a woman. I was sitting next to him. FML
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Top comments
taternuts 0
Don't worry, if he wants to be together forever he's probably not planning on killing you any time soon
j4gerb0mblitz 6
I cant wait to see his reaction when you guys break up.
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Comments (278)
shawtieee 0
That sucks! I'm so sorry! /:
babybrunette128 8
If he's been your boyfriend of 3 years and he hasn't done anything to you , then don't worry to much about it. At least he told you the truth
Enslaved 38
Maybe he has shown signs and him reveling his secret is now starting to make sense to the OP. Four years in an institution is some pretty serious time to be doing and the OP is now worried for some reason. But, I hope you're correct, 27.(:
auriane_fml 19
@ 27 I would agree with you but the OP says that she is scared. It's seems to me that she wants to break-up but she is scared of what he will do. What do you think that the boyfriend will do when he figures out that the OP is scared of him? He wants to stay with her forever.
MarvelFF1243 0
He didn't harm you for 3 years what makes you think he might now.
sinny7684 4
I think it may be related to OP's boyfriend trying to kill his mother,subsequent lengthy stay at a psychiatric unit and maybe, just maybe, saying that they'll be "together forever" right after sharing this bit of news. But that's just a hunch.
j4gerb0mblitz 6
I cant wait to see his reaction when you guys break up.
RetardedChipmunk 7
I can
DoubleDose 0
Beat him at his own game. Tell him you did 4 years in prison for attempting to kill and seriously injuring your last boyfriend, when he threatened you.
randii_17 11
She has been with him for three years, why should she dump him now? And speaking of which, how could she have dated him for that long without knowing such a vital part of his past!?
FreshlyCut 0
Damn Chinese..
CarebearsFTW 2
"Hmm his mother is terrified of him and has a restraining order, strange.."
Calen5556 0
Move. Now.
HowAreYouToday 34
Don't be scared. He had 4 years to get better
Epic_Fail911 15
to get better with his killing skills
HideouslyHuman 10
That made me laugh 107..I'm sure that was your objective.Mission complete!
ImOlivia 5
So that he won't get caught the next time.
ssbtoday 3
They probably kicked him out because they saw no improvement whatsoever.
taternuts 0
Don't worry, if he wants to be together forever he's probably not planning on killing you any time soon
cptmorgan6 8
Ya, but after she breaks up with him he'll kill her.
bwenduh45 7
Lol I lov ur profile pic :D
Daralea 21
Either it means they'll have a long life together, or he's planning to go off with her.
darkmis1 18
It could also mean he's planning a murder suicide.
SkardeyKat 3
Together forever might mean he will lock op away in a basement and feed her buckets of fish heads, if she tries to break up with him anyways.
Nicnats 3
they let him out now, so he must be better
CatPerson123 0
He said they will be together forever so I think that still sounds crazy
Subcontinent 14
#217 not really, if you've been with someone for three years it could be quite a romantic thing to say, like "baby we're going to get married someday". it's just the context we've heard it in that makes it sound creepy
Kayokku 1
He sounds like a pleasant guy.
alpaquette91 9
Run.... Very fast
gruvychild 17
You should be scared! Men usually tend to go for women that are like their mother!
gruvychild 17
Ha! You know what assume means?
False_Stupidity 42
My fiancée is nothing like my mother.. so at least that's not true all the time
pokeychris 6
Just embrace him honey.