By Owie - 12/01/2022 17:00
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You remembered another guy's birthday? Seems suspicious to me. You expected him to confront a knife-wielding assailant while unarmed? That kind of bullshit only works in the movies. Either walk around armed and ready to fight, or you give in to the demands of armed people who got the drop on you.
What if the other guy was a relative? Seriously. You’re seriously rude.
Ummm your bf is legitimately dangerous and put your life at stake... please gtf away from him as far as you can asap. There is no excuse for him aiding the assailant. He helped the assailant threaten your life. That is ALL of the red flags 😬 please stay safe and take care 💜
OK.. I have all the questions here... Did your bf KNOW the mugger and set up that mugging? Was the assailant armed? Does your BF have any skills or any way to even protect you (or himself) from assailants? Bottom line, though? mugged or not, it sounds like dude has some *serious* possessive issues and I personally think you need to take a step away and really assess this relationship. Good luck. =/
While I don't believe he should have done anything against an armed mugger, I think him saying he just let it happen because she wished someone happy birthday really speaks volumes. What if a guy was unarmed and wanted to sexually assault her or attack her? Would he have just stood there and let that happen too? I wouldn't dump him for letting that mugging happen, but I would have dumped him for what he said after the mugging. He sounds super possessive and like he's willing to let you get hurt when he's irrationally upset. He seems controlling and possessive.