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BFF

By BFFN - 14/04/2016 15:36 - United Kingdom - Glasgow

Today, my best friend told me she no longer wants an "active friendship" with me. She says she doesn't have time to see me, since she has a boyfriend and a bunch of friends she's spent years bitching to me about. We've gone from a 14-year friendship to awkwardly nodding at each other in the street. FML

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By MaryJane - 07/08/2019 02:00

Today, my best friend told me she didn't want to be my friend anymore, because she wanted to start afresh in college and have pretty friends. FML

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You deserved it 126

By Less Friendship, More Cash - 06/05/2016 11:54 - Canada - Vancouver

Today, I realized one of my best friends was only friends with me because I would take her shopping, spoil her regularly, and help her out financially. She moved to another province and only contacted me whenever she wanted money. After I refused a couple of times, she deleted me on Facebook. FML

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Better off

By Mysstou - 14/09/2022 09:30 - Canada - Laval

Today, I decided that since my best friend of 25 years always finds a reason not to come when I invited her to see the house I bought 6 months ago, I would stop asking, and wait for her to make the first move. Did I say today? I meant 14 months ago. I'm still waiting. I guess we're not friends anymore. FML

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You deserved it 176

Think before you move

By Anonymous - 29/12/2023 23:00 - United States - Waverly

Today, after I moved across country to move in with my best friend, she decided to move in with her boyfriend a month into me being here. I don't know anyone here. She hasn't been home in 4 months and recently any time we've made plans, she stands me up. FML

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You deserved it 159

Teenage riot

By Anonymous - 14/02/2024 06:00 - United States - West Chester

Today, I got dumped by a friend because she said I was "too much." She's treated me like shit and basically ignored me at times since the beginning of the school year, in favor of hanging out with another friend. I guess years of friendship really can disappear overnight. FML

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You deserved it 103

All is fair in love and war

By Backstabbinghxx - 15/10/2021 20:00

Today, my best friend got engaged. I would be happy for her, if it wasn’t for the fact that her fiancé was my boyfriend just 2 months ago. Upon hearing the news, I severed all ties with her. She ended up bitching me out and calling me selfish for being upset. FML

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Ever get the feeling you've been cheated?

By TiredOfItAll - 21/09/2022 00:00 - United Kingdom

Today, after I spent months trying to show a woman we can be besties, because she thought I only wanted sex (which I totally don't), we've talked every day, texted, shared videos, ect. Now she has a boyfriend and doesn't have time for friends, let alone a bestie. I should've never tried. FML

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You deserved it 507

Fairweather friends

By Anonymous - 18/11/2021 08:01 - United States - Seattle

Today, after not hearing from my "bestie" for over a month, I realized she completely ghosts me when she finds a boyfriend, only calling me when they break up so she can complain, and hangs up before hearing a single word about my life. I have such low self-esteem, I don't even fight it. Who needs enemies? FML

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Friends like these

By Anonymous - 22/08/2021 05:01 - United Kingdom - Brighton

Today, I found out that my closest friend of many years had been putting on a charade of being my friend, and has decided that they can't be bothered with the effort of me existing any more. FML

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By lonely - 19/05/2023 18:00

Today, I realized my best friend has turned into a penpal, as we never see each other, and only text about once a month. She was my only friend outside of family, and now I feel crushingly lonely. FML

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You deserved it 112

UnidentifiedFun 37

Friday 15 April 2016 2:19

Ugh something I cannot stand is lifelong friends ditching each other for their boyfriends. Boys come and go but those friendships could be forever

marcranger 28

Friday 15 April 2016 2:15

Perhaps she doesn't deserve so much as the nod. There are good reasons to end friendships, but it doesn't sound like she had any of them. Better luck finding better friends, OP.

Comments

neepmeep 8

Friday 15 April 2016 19:58

Not to scare you, but do you think her boyfriend made her "break up" with you?

Rose0Madder 14

Friday 15 April 2016 21:03

Tell her bf and other friends about all the mad shit she talked.

Blizz18 14

Friday 15 April 2016 21:39

Sorry to hear that op. When you get betrayed like that there is always a little less trust you have available for the next person. In my experience at least.

jembum21 6

Friday 15 April 2016 21:59

Screw them. I had a similar situation with my best friend and I'm so better off now. You do you boo!

sillygirl247 14

Saturday 16 April 2016 18:22

She doesn't deserve your friendship.

Caymokomoko 23

Saturday 16 April 2016 21:44

I'm sure it'll all blow over. It always does with really good friends.

HBSLICE 11

Saturday 16 April 2016 22:41

this dumbass is still actually taking the time to nod to that bitch? **** her **** boyfriend. **** her bitchass friends. and **** her. dont give her any conformation that her plan could ever work out. **** ya fake friends where da real friends at

chessu 21

Sunday 17 April 2016 10:38

I know it doesn't feel this way now, but in the long run you're better off! I am in a similar position where a person who I consider(ed) to be my best friend seems to have time for everyone and everything else other than me. When she had a boyfriend, it was even worse. It's like she's #1 on my friend list, but I'm like maybe #15 on hers, and it breaks my heart every time there is yet another situation where it becomes obvious she just doesn't care. I've been trying to pluck up the courage to do what she did to you - just tell her that it would be easier for me if we just called it quits cold turkey style, because what we're doing now clearly isn't working. If what she says is truly who she feels and acts then you would've reached this decision yourself eventually yourself, but would've struggled to go through with it and you would've suffered a lot longer. It sucks for now, but after a while, she'll just become someone that you used to know.