instead of sitting someone down just blurt it out as when you tell someone to sit down they know its something serious

But isn't safe sex more meant for stds not pregnancy

An exercise in closing the barn door after the horse has bolted.

well? how did it go?

How old are you? Are you married or in a committed relationship? Were you trying to get pregnant? If not, were you taking precautions to prevent it from happening? Hard to tell if you deserve it or not since we don't know the circumstances.