Who'll tell him?

By Anonymous - 03/03/2023 12:00 - Japan

Today, the girl I like said she was out drinking with a friend. I'm pretty sure she has been lying about all the times she has "fallen asleep" and could not talk, and is actually seeing other people. FML
I agree, your life sucks 314
You deserved it 784

Same thing different taste

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just because you like her doesn't make her your girlfriend. so if she's seeing other people, it's not your business and she doesn't want you to know

Make a move or move on. either way, MOVE. Take action.

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just because you like her doesn't make her your girlfriend. so if she's seeing other people, it's not your business and she doesn't want you to know

Agreed. She's at fault as well though, leading him on instead of just telling him she's not interested (unless she has, but we don't know). He should move on, she should just say 'move on' and both will be happier.

true. but if she has to lie about falling asleep there's a good chance too that he's doing something to make her super uncomfortable

Possibly, yes, We can't know though, since we only have one side of the story and I prefer not to assume too much. He could be a douche, or she could be the douche. Either way, he should just move on - or get a swift kick in the nuts if he's the reason behind her actions.

Nikki 16

Historically women don’t bluntly tell men they aren’t interested, if he’s normal he’ll be fine with it, but mostly you get rude comments, sulking or in some rare cases attacked or murdered

Honestly, people always give the reason that you are giving, but in my and my friends experiences, women don't say "no" because that's seen as an answer you can debate. The first thing that follows after a "no" is "why not?", and the answer you then give never gets accepted, and then you are in a ******* debate and the end result is ALWAYS "What a bitch, she could have been nicer". Like, people are always making it about men being potentially dangerous, maybe to make women look better, but I think most women do it because they're getting nasty looks for saying "no", as if we're not allowed too and we're just trying to avoid those consequences that happen because of something we had no choice in. And maybe if we adress that, instead of "dangerous men", it will actually get solved?

Make a move or move on. either way, MOVE. Take action.

Better to move on to greener pastures. If it turns out she has been less than truthful, you will have dodged a bullet.

She’s just not into you dude. Put on your big boy pants and get over it

ODBeefalo 10

I would say, after the second or third excuse it is pretty clear she just isn't that into you. while it can be annoying not to be told upfront, it sounds like they gave you a good number of indicators they were politely declining

From a lady's perspective, she doesn't like you. Sorry.

of course she's seeing other people, your not dating! sounds like she isn't interested in dating you and you don't have a chance. move on.