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I hope you realize that divorce can take a while to go through. Yes he should've told you he was married but that doesn't necessarily mean he's a cheater

Doesn’t sound like you had a very close 5 year relationship. There’s no way not to know after a couple of weeks.

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So did you think he had a sister you couldn't meet? When you talked about marriage, did you think he was saying, "That would be big of me?"

I hope you realize that divorce can take a while to go through. Yes he should've told you he was married but that doesn't necessarily mean he's a cheater

I'm not sure why you got downvoted, you're right. Both my brother and his GF are separated from other people (not divorced yet, for a myriad of reasons). Yes he should have been upfront, but it doesn't necessarily mean he's still been with his wife.

My mom left my dad when I was 1. The divorce didn't go through until I was about 5. Sometimes these things can take a while. I remember because she was super excited when it went through.

Doesn’t sound like you had a very close 5 year relationship. There’s no way not to know after a couple of weeks.

He should have been up front about that, however it takes a long long time to go through all that crap.