Today, my now ex-boyfriend told me that I was the one. Not at this moment though, he wants to see how far he can go with his best female friend. But once he's done with her, we can be together. FML
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Today, my supposed "best friend" started going out with the girl I'd just split up with, immediately after she said she wanted to see other people. FML
Today, my ex-boyfriend asked how long he'd have to wait until he could ask out my best friend. We broke up yesterday. FML
Today, I was invited out to a date by my ex-boyfriend. He seemed really excited to reconnect and kept holding my hand and complimenting how I looked. Out of nowhere a girl runs up to him screaming. It was his current girlfriend, he was using me to make her jealous. FML
Today, I was hanging out with my ex's new girlfriend. I found out he was dating us both at the same time and was comparing between us. That is why he broke up with me two years ago and is still with her ever since. FML
Today, my ex started dating the girl he kept telling me not to worry about. We broke up three hours ago. FML
Today, one of my female friends decided she wants a relationship with my ex. I told her I was fine with it because we've been apart for years and have been friends ever since. She then made him chose between being friends with me and having her as a girlfriend. I just lost two of my few friends. FML
Today, my ex, who I'm still love with, told me he's engaged. We weren't together for long because he didn't want a committed relationship. Guess it was just me. FML
Today, my boyfriend referred me to me as "just a friend" to his ex. They swapped phone numbers. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me he wants to date other people, but still wants to be with me. He said, “Yes I want to be with you, but maybe we can both find better.” I found out he’s been texting another woman. FML
Today, I was talking to my best friend about how much of an asshole my ex-boyfriend is. After about 2 hours of non-stop bitching, it turns out she's actually dating him. FML
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abbyade 21
Dear OP, do not be the second best. You deserve better. He's a definition of an Asswipe.
peteto818 28
You dodged a bullet, don't bother getting back together with him.
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Comments (81)
DaDezza244 31
What kind of an idiot would think their relationship would still continue!? What a god damn dumbass. FYL, you deserve so much better
Brandi_Faith 33
Seriously. How stupid is he to think that this comment would work. "Man she's going to be so happy to hear that we can be together after I'm done screwing around with this other girl. I bet she can't wait!"
Setareh23 34
I have seen very desperate girls agree to these type of conditions. Like if they're extremely emotionally dependent on him, or if they're pregnant and he's the child's father, or whatever. It's pretty sad. Stupid too. He probably figured it was worth a try...the dumbass. Good on OP for not putting up with it.
valtato100 4
Hey OP, I'm going through the exact same thing! Just keep your head up and tell yourself you can do better every day. I read something that also said to surround yourself with a large group of people who support you. Trust me, it helps a lot :) Hang in there honey. You'll be okay
Ramb0 20
And they say true love is dead...
ccat209 17
He's probably not going very far with her either. Say you're obviously not the one for me and then **** his best friend
yenze 18
I always see "op you deserve better" comments in fmls like theses. How do we know op deserves better for all we know op could be a real shitty person and deserves a shitty bf. Not saying op is a shitty person but she could be
myshinynose 11
I've thought that as well but most people, I think, are just trying to be supportive. It's the same as saying, "I'm sorry for your loss" when you hear someone has had a loved one die. It's annoying at times, but it's well intended.
fakedsincerity 32
I don't think anyone would deserve that BS. Also I'd rather assume the good in people and believe they don't deserve bad things until proven otherwise.
yenze 18
Yes that is true but i am just saying when someone posts an fml its only one side of the story. (just as an example) in this fml op could be sleeping with her best guy friend so her boyfriend said that as a reply i don't think that happened here but we don't know and in that case op doesn't deserve better.
gracehi 31
I think if she were that awful, he wouldn't want to get back together with her whether or not it worked out with the other girl. Unless he said that in order to manipulate her into dumping him so he wouldn't have to do it, but that's a stretch.
NH_Freelancer 19
Wow... What the actual ****?? Did he seriously not see anything wrong with that!? You deserve FAR better! You made the right choice in dumping his ass!
myshinynose 11
Never believe it when someone tells you that you're The One. It's usually right before they have second thoughts and dump you lol The phrase itself means less than nothing. Only time and trust can make it true, and by the time it becomes true it doesn't need to be said. As for you, OP, I'm glad to see that you didn't tolerate being someone's last resort :)
cocacola999 27
If you're friends with his best friend, please warn the poor girl. If a "friend" of mine was being so disrespectful behind my back, I'd want to know.
Mynxie 26
I would tell her that he is using her if she doesn't know that he was in a relationship. If she does know of his true intentions, well they deserve each other. Sorry OP
cocacola999 27
I'm guessing that's why he wanted to take a break - because his friend said she's not sleeping with a guy behind his gf's back. Otherwise he'd just have cheated OP with his friend.So he'd just tell her that they broke up for good.
Setareh23 34
That's even sadder for her, because it means she only wanted to sleep with him if it was a real relationship (and not her as the side chick)...but in truth he's gone and screwed them both over. I'd definitely tell the girl if I were OP. If she already knew, then yeah they deserve each other. But if not, the sooner she knows the less painful it'll be. Of course she might not believe her, but then that's her own problem.
rien151 19
op, If you were really the one he wouldn't be able to let you go. He's just saying that to string you along while he goes and dips his wick elsewhere. You do not deserve to be treated that way. Good luck