By loser - 02/03/2016 00:20 - United Kingdom - Leeds

Today, my mum asked when she's getting grandkids. I had to tell her that, at 21 years-old, I hadn't even managed to get a boyfriend yet. FML
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That's okay. Not everyone want kids or has had a relationship yet.

Don't let external pressures change the way you think. It's your life; do whatever makes you happy. You have all the time in the world.

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That's nice of her to put you on the spot like that. FYL for having a mom that would do that.

obviously, you have no idea how it is to have no mom at all.

A mother that makes you feel bad is not a good mother. Sorry if you didn't have one, but you haven't any right to tell others how to think about their family.

That's okay. Not everyone want kids or has had a relationship yet.

CliffyB03 28

Don't worry. At 19, my grandma praised my for saving myself. At 20, she wanted to know where the grandkids were

same my grandma is like that with all her grandkids she has 1 so she kinda stop

Don't let external pressures change the way you think. It's your life; do whatever makes you happy. You have all the time in the world.

I know I'm going to get down votes for this, but I just wanted to point out that death is when OP's time is up. However, I do agree that she should take her time in getting into a relationship. It's better for it to be permanent and meaningful than to be short and pointless.

And she probably only has 20 or 30 more years to have kids. Certainly not millions or billions of years. Though depending on who becomes president of the US the world may end in 2017, so 4 may be right.

Ask her if she'll pay for them! Thatl get her thinking

You're beautiful and an awesome person despite not having a boyfriend yet. It doesn't make you a loser. Better to focus on what you want and the right time will come.

At 21 I think there's still a lot of things to do before even thinking about having kids

I went to see how old you are after reading your comment (which I absolutely agree with). Turns out we have the same birthday - awesome.

Megatron_Griffin 25

I got curious and i checked his birthday too haha. I also have he same birth day :)

Don't let anyone rush you into something you don't want or will regret later on. You're 21, I bet you still have a lot of other goals you want to pursue anyways.

hoosiergirl94 31

21? Ok slow down mom...

I just turned 21 and I haven't managed to get a boyfriend yet, either (although I'm working on getting one now). But I think 21 is way too young for kids, anyway. I don't want kids until I'm 30. At least.