Just because you were on a vacation together it doesn't mean that you spent enough time together. But honestly it sounds like she is a bit sensitive.

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well, may be what she meant is that you didn't spend enough times with her BEFORE the vacation.

Separation anxiety much?

needy much? Maybe she's got that empty nest thing going on? call her a few times a week. OR its like my situation and she gets her kids confused. my sister lived with her a long while longer then I did and she thinks I don't like her! dude she's my momma!!! I don't like her boyfriend HUGE DIFFERENCE

Did you recently take a two-week vacation with your dad?

If she has to lecture, something is wrong for sure with communication between you guys

We were together at least half the day every day. I'm the youngest child but the first to get married so the empty nest syndrome hit her hard. I try to be sympathetic but it's hard