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Ouch. Fuck your life, also fuck the 12 year-old daughter's life for having a deadbeat dad.

On the next episode of Divorce Court....


Way to know your husband, that sux tho

Obviously he cheated on her and kept it a secret. not her fault.

i feel bad for the kid... imagine your step mom not knowing you exist

It's only bad for the kid if the mom herself isn't aware of the kid's existence....

..that doesnt make sense. The kid has her own mother. She should feel bad though that her father is a married man who cheated on his wife with her mother and the result was her. It really sucks for you OP because this is your husband of 14 yrs and all that time he kept this hidden from you! my only guess was in his defense he didnt tell you because he didnt want to admit he cheated and you leave him. still what an ass twice over, for cheating and for not telling. the kid is almost as old as your marriage! Also, how can you not know in 12yrs that he pays child support?

Why? Step mums aren't that big of a deal.. If you weren't in contact with your father you step mum wouldn't matter at all.. She's as good as a stranger.

She shouldn't feel bad that she's the result of a man cheating on his wife. The father should, and the mom should, if she knew that he was married, but the daughter had no control over the circumstances of her conception and has nothing to feel guilty about.

No, it is bad for the kid. Not so much the stepmom not knowing you exist part, but the fact that your father never intended on taking care of you, never helped pay for you to survive, and probably never bothered visiting you. In her mind, she must often feel that she isn't worth much.

Thank-you #2, Officer obvious.

thats why he got arrested idiot............he hasn't been paying it at all

i think that #50 was a response to #23, so what i think he is try to say that the kid might end up feeling that way, which sucks for the kid, not that the kid SHOULD feel that way.

I agree with most of what you said but the point is, he DIDN'T pay the support payments. That's probably how she never found out. It may have just caught up with him. This super sucks though.

#88 Wow you take things way too serious. As if you know either one of the people involved in the situation. these are people's opinion so why are stop calling them names for something they feel. I mean really calm down. just breathe laceypatrickson.

sucks that you gotta find out NOW that he cheated on you over 12 years ago

It's not her fault her husband is a lying, cheating asshole. You'd be surprised at how deceptive people can be. Also, F the daughter's life for having that guy for a father.

he obviously wasn't paying it.

my stepdaughter is one. my husband and I have been married four years. how DARE you assume that she should share ANY responsibility for something she had absolutely no control over?

He didn't pay child support for 12 years, that's the point of him being arrested

You must be dating my ex! Fuck your life.

On the next episode of Divorce Court....

Holy shit... well if they make a program about that I'm watching! Now this is a REAL fml!

Ouch. Fuck your life, also fuck the 12 year-old daughter's life for having a deadbeat dad.

she wont be able to get anything because it will all go to child support!!!

This is gonna be one hell of a divorce....and people can get warrants for missing Child Support payments? My crack-head mom didn't pay my Dad for 18 years! Must be an Oregon thing.

No, it's nation-wide. It's just not well known. As to the woman this happened to, you're probably not alone XP. I recommend you calm down, then make a decision from there. Personally, I would slash open his nut sack. Then again, I'm 19 and have a bad temper :P.

Omg pleAse don't slash open his nut sack. I'm a girl and the thought of this made me cringe.

WTF? I didn't write that....*goes to change password*

wrong fml...

Its a well known fact only men are responsible for child support payments. if women dump the kid off on the father they dont have to pay a dime

Uhh... What?? Please tell me you're being sarcastic, Sexxi. PLEASE.

I'm with #18. You need counselling #14. Sucks to be the wife, kid, and the kid's mom. Although at least she's about to get the money. I don't pity the guy, you reap what you sow. Especially kids.

yeahhh my dad was arrested a couple days before my high school graduation. I was the only one out of 4 kids to graduate. my mom called it in.

What is wrong with you????

if it's not in the divorce papers then he doesn't have to pay

#99 if the childs mother knew he was married it's not a FHL. The child is not to blame and neither is the wife but it takes a really skanky woman (or man, I'm not sexist) to sleep with a married/in any form of relationship man (or woman, again not sexist) and the mother is just as much to blame for the cheating if she knew he was married.

oh wow.... that really sucks

Totally, entirely, completely must suck. FYL!

holy crap. FYL.

DAMN, fyl. :(