By Anon - 06/09/2015 12:50 - United Kingdom - Stafford
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"Oh her ring size? Fuck you. Thats the size". Hopefully you gave him hell. He could've gotten her ring size from anyone; he asked you to purposely get under your skin. Try to shake it off :(
I can understand why you feel that way. Whenever I was anxious about getting engaged and ready for marriage, I told my boyfriend the size and my closest friends my size in case he came to them asking. As for OP, he could have taken one of her rings and had it sized. Maybe it's me, but whenever you're discussing marriage, ring size comes up at some point with the topic of what kind of engagement rings you're interested in. And hey, there's nothing wrong with not knowing your size ;)
Telling him the truth would be the nice thing. Telling him a wrong size might be more satisfying.
you watch too much tv. just because something is hard doesn't mean it's right. responding to evil people with kindness doesn't make you a good person, it just makes you a smug doormat and invites more mistreatment in the future because they know you won't fight back.