By Kitty - 23/04/2009 08:54 - Singapore

Today, my boyfriend told me he needed to reconsider coming to see me for financial reasons. I'm the one paying for the airfare, giving him a place to stay, and covering his expenses while he's here. FML
I agree, your life sucks 57 080
You deserved it 6 814

Same thing different taste

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Courtnaayy 0

Tell him he needs better excuses [: Look on the bright side, MAYBE he feels bad for you, because you pay everything and wants a girl where he can be able to pay also. Or maybe he is just a gold digger. Good Luck though xD

he's just trying breakup up with you subtly, take a hint?

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Strand him there. Tell your credit card company you didn't order any of it.

Courtnaayy 0

Tell him he needs better excuses [: Look on the bright side, MAYBE he feels bad for you, because you pay everything and wants a girl where he can be able to pay also. Or maybe he is just a gold digger. Good Luck though xD

_sourside 0

he probably has to take off work to see you though. but why would you want a guy who can't afford his own stuff? think of this as a blessing in disguise, and get yourself someone who can support himself.

This is funny because I am about to visit my long-distanced girlfriend only it's the other way around - I'm paying. :) That's the way it should be anyway.. you paying for him shows the lack of his dedications you're better off without him.

I'm with #5. Not that he has to always be 100% on top of things, but you definately want someone who take care of himself, make goals and keep them. Especially if they are important to him, like visiting a girlfriend should be. you're probably better off in the long run

Maybe you should find a boyfriend who is capable of paying his own way. Not to be shallow, but he sounds like a loser.

Agree with #6; if you have to pay, then maybe his heart's not in it. Unless he's worried about taking off work or something. Still, he's not being up-front with you about something, and you may be better off without him if he's not going to be open with you.

Jesse_Forrest 0

Maybe he felt bad that you were paying for everything, so he wants to pay for it himself. But I don't know your boyfriend, so I may very well be wrong.