By Anonymous - 12/03/2013 22:21 - United States - Berkeley
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I think you should just reassure him that y'all are ready =) he obviously is crazy about you!
Just a moment of blind panic to be sure OP. Talk it out with him when he returns. Try to alleviate his anxiety by explaining that marriage won't be so different from your current living status. Good luck you
You don't want to marry him if he's not sure. It's a pretty sure sign of immaturity for him to propose without being certain.
At least he actually ASKED you. I's married, but he never actually asked me. He just said, so... you wanna go look at rings tomorrow? And that was that.
It's ok. My parents proposal was: Dad: so are we getting married and your moving in with me or are we breaking up? Mom: I guess I'm moving Dad: ok go look at rings and pick what you want. At least your husband went with you. But hey they're still happily married 25 years later so I guess it worked for them.
hm.. it sounds like he was expecting a different answer. just talk through it. congratulations though... I think!