Today, my boyfriend asked why I never let him go down on me. I told him that it doesn't do much for me, even though it really does. I didn't have the courage to tell him that it's because he acts like a rabid dog when he does. FML
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So yes, I agree that I completely deserve it because I won't be blunt with him. I just don't want him to get insecure about it, like he has with other intimate things. I drop hints by not showing response when he starts to act like I'm a chew toy, but it doesn't work. I have however, brought up the idea of watching movies with him, he's agreed to it, so maybe I'll lightly drop the bomb there.... But all in all, he's a great man and an exceptional lover--just not with that one bit of foreplay. Thanks for the laughs and opinions!
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rosha267 21
If you're comfortable enough to have sex with him you should be comfortable enough to talk to him about it
JMichael 26
Well maybe if you say something he could improve. Can't expect improvement without communication.
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Comments (138)
Omniprism 15
Train him...no pun intended. Most guys appreciate direction. You have to tell them slow down, speed up, tongue, no tongue, fingers, no fingers. I think you should try again. Everyone is different that is why communication is key.
EvilLittleMan 23
Is peanut butter involved?
jayray313 21
So let him go down on you, but you tell him what to do. Some men like women giving then orders in bed
Zebediabolical 45
Rule #1: Women are responsible for their own pleasure. If you can't or won't communicate about the things you want and need in a sexual relationship, then you deserve all the shitty sex you get. Rule #2: This goes for men as well.
barlos88 19
Throw some peanut butter down there and see if it does any good
SgtBlacksmith 9
No offence, but that's a pretty massive blow to his manhood....
militarybrat 21
No...not really. Not everyone likes things the same way. Example: this guy's previous gf might have liked it like that. Im married and sometimes I have to tell him (and he me) what not to do or do, simply because sometimes I want it done differently.
infectedsense 15
Some of us are a little bit shy vocalising what we want in bed, I feel you OP. Sucks for you.
doglover100 29
Communication is key in a relationship.
bosox29 14
tell him to slow down and take his time. i know its fun and pleasurable for both but there is no need to deprive yourself of such an awesome experience.
ShenaniganNinja 20
You aren't willing to tell him? YDI.