no girl. he sucks! he left a perfect family for someone who can only be a model. nothing else to give to the world. once she's all washed up and coked out, he'll think back to the life he had with you and the kiddos and probably be a drunk loser running on this high of this once upon a time hot gf he had and that's his peak. you won in this situation. not having to live and deal with a pig like him who goes for looks and lust, not love and family. better sooner than later. I wish you three the best, and make it hell on him to see your beautiful babies. they are not a choice. you both made the decision. MAKE HIM PAYYYYY

life only sucks for a moment. now your life is going in a better direction, without someone who will put you down for natural beauty from childbirth. always find love and peace knowing you made the better decision than to try and fight him to stay and tear you down even further

Don't worry. He'll have kids with her and dump her after he ruins her body. You ought to start working out and dieting now so you can be hot after she turns into a fat pig, and then you can win him back. So worth it!

Any man who dumps you for natural body changes after BIRTHING HIS CHILDREN is a loser you're better off without. You deserve so much more than that ********.

You're better off without that superficial scrotum.You deserve someone who fully appreciates you.

why would you want to still be with him knowing he's capable of doing this to you? it would have happened at some point anyway, everyone gets older and their body changes, children or not. it would have happened sooner or later. find you a man that appreciates you for you and don't waste any more valuable energy on that loser that didn't love you

What no!!!? Never take trash back. Don't even compare yourself to others. This is mentally hard and you just keep searching reason where there isn't. He did you a favour. Now wipe the contact and start taking note of yourself and be the best person for yourself. You are the only person who's opinion matters rest is just a fluff.

Assuming that’s the actual reason, the hell with him. If there was something having to do with growing apart because of the kids, well, that’s different. I mean, shit, my ex birthed two kids and is with someone else now; she’s his problem now and my new girlfriend is a goddess. I upgraded; you should do the same.

There's nothing that says you can't workout and get in shape and love who are. You are worth more than him.

He sounds disgusting, if he wasn’t he wouldn’t have minded and/or loved that your body changed to bring two little angels in the world that required both of you to bring into this world. If you can make it on your own, you don’t need to keep him in your life with child support.