Today, my boyfriend asked why I never let him go down on me. I told him that it doesn't do much for me, even though it really does. I didn't have the courage to tell him that it's because he acts like a rabid dog when he does. FML
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So yes, I agree that I completely deserve it because I won't be blunt with him. I just don't want him to get insecure about it, like he has with other intimate things. I drop hints by not showing response when he starts to act like I'm a chew toy, but it doesn't work. I have however, brought up the idea of watching movies with him, he's agreed to it, so maybe I'll lightly drop the bomb there.... But all in all, he's a great man and an exceptional lover--just not with that one bit of foreplay. Thanks for the laughs and opinions!
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rosha267 21
If you're comfortable enough to have sex with him you should be comfortable enough to talk to him about it
JMichael 26
Well maybe if you say something he could improve. Can't expect improvement without communication.
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Comments (138)
somethingnew72 4
LOL!!
wolfettet 9
I've been there before..terrifying
kittie77 10
Talk to him.. Poor guy. :(
vincentcloud 4
Im glad you decided to watch movies cause honestly I probably wasnt great to start out but after watching some I have never had a woman complain about(not that a really did to start with). Also you might want to show him what you like and communicate during sex.
597mph 10
I'm trying to figure out if "rabid dog" connotes a good or bad thing...
The_Mad_Writer 3
Just tell him you like it but to ease up a bit because you're sensitive down there. It was the same thing with me and my man. Trust me it's much better now ;)
troyhep31 5
She's totally right
emmanuelwade 9
Talk to him tell him wt to do differently
shellylove2013 9
If u don't communicate nothing will get better and ur relationship will never last.
Strangequeen22 12
Part of the problem could be that he doesn't realize how sensitive you actually are. Your nerve endings are very concentrated around your ******, and he probably doesn't realize the use of teeth causes pain rather than pleasure. Everyone else is right, you can't sacrifice your pleasure for his pride. Just explain to him that you're really sensitive and that it's uncomfortable when he uses his teeth, and that you prefer something more gentle. I'm sure he'll understand, I bet he doesn't enjoy you biting down on his member either.