Today, my boyfriend asked why I never let him go down on me. I told him that it doesn't do much for me, even though it really does. I didn't have the courage to tell him that it's because he acts like a rabid dog when he does. FML
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So yes, I agree that I completely deserve it because I won't be blunt with him. I just don't want him to get insecure about it, like he has with other intimate things. I drop hints by not showing response when he starts to act like I'm a chew toy, but it doesn't work. I have however, brought up the idea of watching movies with him, he's agreed to it, so maybe I'll lightly drop the bomb there.... But all in all, he's a great man and an exceptional lover--just not with that one bit of foreplay. Thanks for the laughs and opinions!
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rosha267 21
If you're comfortable enough to have sex with him you should be comfortable enough to talk to him about it
JMichael 26
Well maybe if you say something he could improve. Can't expect improvement without communication.
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LisaDay 14
tell him. if youdon't know how to tell him straight up, suggest you two take it easy and have slow sex. try a different position or something. and you do and enjoy it more, tell him you like the slow way better. or even better, tell or you can show him exactly what you like, how fast, how much pressure, etc. he'll be happy to learn and please you. after all, a woman who gets satisfied will want more sex! ;)
Spyfiction 6
Ha!
how_to_implode 17
I started having that problem with my boyfriend. He would get overexcited at the idea of making me come, and that would distract him ... a lot. I went ahead and talked to him about it and he happily said that he would try to improve. He did and now he's vastly better at pleasing me and our sex life is awesome. It seems like your guy actually likes to please you too (crazy, I know), since he basically asked what he was doing wrong and what you wanted instead. Instead of being honest, you decided to deprive both parties of that pleasure. Well, boo-hoo for you.
LisaDay 14
i agree. she definately deserves for hin to keep doing it "wrong" if she won't talk to him.
carterjanelle 9
They'll never know what they're doing wrong unless we tell them
laden_swallow09 35
Lurk moar, 19
kozzard 17
Wait for peridx then, he can educate you in the ways of the internet
vlalam 24
Please communicate properly and it's the key for a good relationship than killing things... Good luck!!! No ones perfect but if we present it in right away, ppl are receptive to improve things
DarthBangye 15
Tell him
adventurousnight 12
I think you might wanna give communication a try. Be careful to give him constructive feedback about the things you would like him to do, instead of destroying his confidence by telling him he acts like a rabid dog.
Jonny_Blaze0017 26
He will keep doing the same thing unless you instruct him otherwise