Calling him your boyfriend and then saying he has a wife implies you know and are fine with him cheating. No sympathy for you.

Cheater; I can't see how you deserve sympathy. His wife needs to know.

The moment you should've put FML is when you realized you're with someone who's still going home to someone else.

Might as well start calling him your baby-daddy instead of your boyfriend, darling. It's just a matter of time; if he hasn't left his wife in 7+ months, he sure ain't leaving for you! The best thing you can do is get child support and cut the dad out of your life. I would think being the child of a single parent household would be far less traumatic than being constantly reminded you're the product of infidelity when visiting daddy. I don't hold much sympathy for you but I do wish you luck. Everyone makes mistakes, this doesn't have to define you if you don't let it.

And you expected him to do what?? It's apparent you knew he was married. He won't be leaving her for you. Even if you are carrying his child. Looks like single motherhood for you.

Wow, seriously??! Did you post this to get sympathy? Cuz from what I see most of us have our heads on STRAIGHT and don't give you any kind of pity. Soo many problems but these are the too 3 I can't seem to understand why you put yourself in this situation. #1 He's married and YOU KNOW IT!!! #2 your pregnant with a married mans child #3 you knew it was his wives birthday ..... Ok if you got with him and knew he was married, shame on you!!! If you met him and he lied and said he was single and wasn't wearing his ring, but you found out he was married..again shame on you!!! You got pregnant and continue to call him your boyfriend, wtf is wrong with your brain?? Too much to process..you deserve noooo pity at all from no one. Maybe I should look out for you on a future Maury episode cuz what if you was already pregnant when you met him or maybe you have a man to go home too. Don't try to make him look like a fool on this FML, (I'm not on his side either!!!) But you making yourself look like a bimbo headed no brained woman, its females like you that REAL honest men have a hard time trusting the HONEST REAL FEMALES. I feel absolutely sorry for that innocent baby and wife, since they have no clue of the truth.

You are the worst kind of bitch. One who doesn't realize ITS HER OWN FAULT!!! take responsibility and stop ******* other peoples husbands, you horrible ****.

******* Yikes

For one, the amount of slit-shaming on here is just awful. For two, we don't know the whole situation. And for three, have any of you even heard of polyamory?

I love how people are so quick to judge and jump to conclusions. We don't know the whole story. It's possible that the writer didn't know her boyfriend was cheating on his wife until he left her to go take his wife out. If she knew he was cheating why would she be upset about him celebrating her birthday? Mob mentality. We also don't know what happened afterward. He was her boyfriend at the time she found out, but that doesn't mean he is now.

If you knew before you got pregnant, well, Karma is a bitch! But if you didn't, kill the bastard (or better yet, tell his wife!)

I'm not even going to begin to Preach about safe, protected sex. I just think YDI says it all, OP.