By m - 22/08/2012 01:59 - United States - Stamford
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You need to develop better taste in men
Guys treat girls like that when they think they can get away with it, as in you wont get mad.. or as in an im-just-joking-but-not-totally sort of way. Now, What sort of girls let guys get away with things like this... hmm.. girls with low self esteem, who are usually referred to as a "what" based on their actions... hmmm? Then again, I'm a virgin, and I faint when I try to talk to a girl.
Guy friends seem to always see their female friends as potential girlfriends no matter what the situation! OP your friend is an idiot for how he went about things but I bet he probably liked you for a long time while you were taken!
I don't agree, I've had plenty of female friends who I didn't see as potential girlfriends. He was just an asshole. Typically, once we've reached a certain level of friendship without anything sexual happening, we're just friends. I'm sorry your friend was such a dick, OP. I hope he wasn't too good of a friend, so you won't lose too much by throwing him away.
66: I don't think that that was supposed to be justifying his actions. I think people are too quick to say something is justifying wrong-doing, or blaming the victim. Most people aren't trying to do either. On another note, I hate stories like this. Sometimes I might want to do something along the lines of taking out a female friend for ice cream after a break-up, but I worry that she might think I have something like that in mind. If idiots didn't pull that kind of shit I wouldn't have to worry about it.
Well fuck me, who wouldn't get turned on by ice cream? Everyone loves ice cream!!! I'm more afraid of what dessert might be.